04/06/2026
As a new ally, it’s your worst nightmare: Something you said or did hurt your LGBTQ+ loved one—and you genuinely didn’t mean to! Maybe you intended to say something nice and have no idea why it impacted them in that way.
➡️ Instead of getting defensive, try:
• Acknowledging (rather than minimizing) the impact.
• Remembering that a gentle correction is not a personal attack, but an opportunity for you to learn how to do better.
• Apologizing in a way that takes responsibility for the hurt that you caused.
Watch the PFLAG Academy Online Learning Session “Be Kind, Rewind: Understanding Your Role in Building Inclusion” to learn more: pflag.org/resource/pao-bekindrewindrecording 🏳️🌈