09/07/2026
Step 9:
We made direct amends to such people wherever possible, except when to do so would injure them or others.
At this point in recovery, most of us have experienced some major changes in our attitudes. At one time, we were so consumed by our addictions that we thought only of ourselves, failing to show any consideration for others. In this step, the focus is on the interest and needs of others.
Bible reading: Philippians 2:1-8
There may be situations where we will suffer if we go back to make amends. This is part of the work of recovery, and the potential pain should not deter us. The apostle Peter wrote, "If you suffer for doing good and endure it patiently, God is pleased with you....Christ suffered for you. He is your example, and you must follow in his steps. He never sinned, nor ever deceived anyone. He did not retaliate when he was insulted, nor threatened revenge when he suffered. He left his case in the hands of God, who always judges fairly " (1 Peter 2:20-23).
This step can be very difficult as we face the painful consequences of our past actions. During this time, we need to turn our lives over to the care of God. He will fairly and wisely decide what will happen to us.
The best cure for selfishness is God's call to serve others.