06/21/2026
This weekend, we celebrate Father’s day! This year, my mind is drawn to a matter I don’t consider as frequently as I ought. Life is so busy, and the noise of it is often deafening, making it difficult to think, but the fact remains, I am leaving a legacy. I don’t get to choose the environment, culture, or climate I leave it in, I’ve been placed where I am, and my responsibility is to grow where I am planted! The question that burns into my mind is, “what am I leaving behind?”
So often, we buy into the notion that our legacy involves recognition, funds left to a group we find deserving, some magnanimous thing we’ve accomplished over the course of our lives. But according to God’s Word, that’s not really a lasting thing at all. Someone will come along and get more recognition, someone will give much more money than we could ever give, someone will do something that causes our feeble action to pale by comparison.
Our legacy should be the faith we pass down to the next generation. Sort of like an acorn that is planted, nurtured and cared for day after day, week after week, year after year, until, those who come after us, can bask in the shade of it. It’s not the “Sunday performance” you gave at church, rather it’s how you lived on Tuesday, when life got difficult, things didn’t go as you planned. How did you respond? What did those around you see in your life that made them hungry for the faith you had? How much shade did you offer them?
As a Dad, my main concern is, how am I living each and every day? Even if I staunchly deny it, young people especially can spot hypocrisy a mile off in a blinding storm, and like it or not, they are going to live what they learn from me.
It’s easy, and common to blame their behavior on any and everything but myself, but the fact remains, they can see when I mess up, how I handle it, how I respond to pressure and frustrations of life, how readily I apologize. They see my desire to please or not please Jesus lived out in full color every day of my life.
This is a tough thing! It’s much easier to leave a legacy of funds, simply work like a dog and give a chunk to some organization that will mention me as the benefactor! A true legacy however involves something much more simple, but remember, simple and easy are not one and the same thing!
A true legacy involves a conscious decision...like Joshua over in Joshua 24:15 when he said, As for me and my house, we will serve the Lord! This declaration must be lived out moment by moment, day by day, week by week...you get the picture! A day will come, quickly than we realize, that our legacy can be a towering oak tree, offering shade to all those around, or it can be nothing. I know what I want mine to be! I can’t choose Jesus for my loved ones, but I can live in such a way that they know with no doubt that a relationship with God through Jesus is possible, and the best way to live!