10/26/2026
Many pastors and parents we meet are not necessarily afraid of having a challenging conversation, but they are afraid of saying that one thing that could shut the door on building a safe conversation.
Guiding Families offers five go-to phrases that can help open doors to healthy conversations. These phrases assure love, ask honoring questions, and keep trust alive for the conversations that follow.
"I love you, and this does not change that."
"How difficult has this been to share with us?"
"We would like to hear more about what this has been like for you."
"How do you prefer to identify? What does that mean to you?"
"Is there anything you need from us right now?"
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