04/24/2026
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Since I can remember I hv been an observer & a student of human behavior, especially abnormal behavior. As early as age 4 or 5 I had questions & would ask. Situations that included confusion would hv me interested. Relationships that seemed strange would hv me puzzled. Atmospheres that were chaotic would make me uncomfortable. Ppl who moved funny would cause me pause.
Imagine being young & not knowing what to do with all of that intel. Imagine not having access to discuss it. Imagine being conditioned to shun the obvious & then fall in line with just living like these caution lights, red flags, danger zones, & etc. are not important, or are your imagination. Gaslit often. Society is a major gaslighter. You're taught or scared into minding your business, even at the expense of another. Sadly, minding your business may be the safest thing to do. So what do you do?
You can't arrest ppl for abnormal psychopathy. Only for crimes. But you can be aware. You can also share. As a prayer warrior, or someone who is supposed to be -- I can intercede. I can teach. I can do something.
The conflict is that I have experienced is that when I do go hard in my lane there is a quietness. When I share wisdom there are crickets. Either the algorithm is not sending me out, by design, or ppl do not react to it because it is not "popular" or scratching that fleshly itch. I hv seen the proof. When I have posted content about men in the sense of dating, looking, hooking up the reactions &.engagement comes easy. But posting things like warnings, maturing into discerning women of God gets ... CRICKETS!
As I move forward publishing information that makes us aware and warns us of others I ALSO admonish US to examine & mature ourselves. Our behavior and psychology needs to be questioned if & when we continuously choose poorly. These doggish men & manipulative & toxic ppl are not bum rushing our doors w***y nilly, we are inviting and letting most of them in. Why? Sister girl, why are YOU ending up in similar situations seemingly receiving the short end of the stick? Always??
ACCOUNTABILITY is a CRUCIAL key to maturity & safety. To go from a foolish woman to a wise one you will have HAD to examine yourself and change some things. NO ONE woke up "like this." It does not matter how many ppl refer to you as queen or boss you have things about you & inside you to work on. You are NOT almighty and righteous because you are female. Humble yourselves ladies ... Pride goes before a fall!
James 4: 6- 10 (ESV)
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6 But he gives more grace. Therefore it says, βGod opposes the proud but gives grace to the humble.β 7 Submit yourselves therefore to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you. 8 Draw near to God, and he will draw near to you. Cleanse your hands, you sinners, and purify your hearts, you double-minded. 9 Be wretched and mourn and weep. Let your laughter be turned to mourning and your joy to gloom. 10 Humble yourselves before the Lord, and he will exalt you.
Psalm 139:23-24 (ESV)
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Search me, O God, and know my heart!
Try me and know my thoughts![a]
24 And see if there be any grievous way in me,
and lead me in the way everlasting!
Though I'm into serious matters I NEVER take myself too seriously π€ see image below for proof π