09/08/2026
“Church hurt is real. But so is church healing. Don’t let one bad experience isolate you from the body of Christ.
I’m not going to pretend people haven’t been wounded in church. So I get it. Sometimes people have been ignored, mishandled, judged, betrayed, disappointed, or deeply hurt by people they trusted.
And if that happened to you, I’m not asking you to call it okay. Toxic church sucks. And house should be cleaned. But I would ask you not to let one painful experience convince you that isolation is the only answer.
The enemy would love to use what happened in the church to disconnect you from Jesus. People are imperfect. Pastors are imperfect. Churches are imperfect. And sometimes, unfortunately, imperfect people can do some serious damage.
But (I'm gonna all caps this) BUT...JESUS STILL LOVES HIS CHURCH.
You still need a pastor who can shepherd you, people who will pray with you, worship with you, challenge you, cry with you, encourage you, carry burdens with you, and hold you up when life gets heavy.
Healing doesn’t always mean going back to the same church, the same relationship, or the same toxic environment where you were hurt. Sometimes healing means finding a healthy church and having the courage to trust again.
I just preached this....“And let us consider how we may spur one another on toward love and good deeds, not giving up meeting together…” Hebrews 10:24–25 NIV
Don’t make Jesus pay for what people did. He loves you. He has healing for you. He has the right church (group of healthy Christ followers) for you. Don't let HURT have the final word. Let HEALING have the final say.” Josh Huffman