10/27/2026
Your spouse may not need another answer from you. They may need you to listen. Sometimes couples aren't fighting because they disagree. They're fighting because neither person feels heard. Before you defend yourself, try asking: "Help me understand what you're feeling." Then listen without interrupting. "Let every person be quick to hear, slow to speak, slow to anger." β James 1:19 Tonight's Marriage Challenge: Give your spouse 5 uninterrupted minutes to talk. Your job isn't to fix it. Your job is to understand it. Follow Calling All Marriages for more practical and biblical marriage conversations. Letβs Communicate and Talk Later.