09/03/2026
Suffering isn't a surprise. Peter tells us to expect it (1 Peter 1:6-12) — but most of us respond to it by grasping for control. We hand out platitudes because they cost us nothing. We assume, like Job's friends did, that good behavior should buy us a pain-free life. We avoid the hard thing rather than risk what it might cost us.
But Jesus didn't manage his suffering from a distance. At his friend's grave, he wept — the shortest verse in the Bible, and one of the clearest pictures of who God actually is. In the garden, facing the cross, he let go of control entirely: not my will, but yours. And what followed wasn't less suffering — it was the cross, and then resurrection glory on the other side of it.
That's the pattern deeper joy is built on. Not ignoring your pain. Not pretending you're fine. Sorrowful, yet always rejoicing (2 Corinthians 6:10) — smiling and trusting Jesus while you're still crying and still mourning.