06/16/2026
Stop Talking About Your Ex
Scripture: Romans 7:4 - "So, my brothers and sisters, you also died to the law through the body of Christ, that you might belong to another, to him who was raised from the dead."
Reflection: You were never meant to be married to the Law. Mr. Law was a good man but a terrible husband—constantly criticizing, never helping, always finding fault. But now you're married to Mr. Grace. Whatever He asks, He provides. Whatever He requires, He does.
Christians need to stop talking about their exes. Stop talking about how hard the Christian life is, how much you struggle, how you're trying to keep all the rules. You're married to Grace now, not Law.
Practice: Make a list: What am I trying to do to earn God's approval? Bible reading? Church attendance? Being a good parent? Controlling my temper? These aren't bad things—they're just not how we base our relationship with God. Before you read your Bible, serve, or pray today, pause and say: "I am not doing this to earn anything. I do this because I'm loved."
Prayer: Lord, forgive me for trying to earn what You've freely given. Help me live from Your love, not for it. I'm not trying to become righteous—I already am in Christ. Thank You for being the best husband my soul could ever have. Amen.