04/23/2026
“I watch p**n because my wife won’t have s*x with me” sounds like a blunt confession, but it’s usually a doorway into something much bigger: intimacy, rejection, power, trust, and what we believe s*x is actually for. We sit with that statement pastorally and honestly, and we ask a hard question many couples avoid: when s*x disappears in a Christian marriage, what is the wise, loving, God-honoring next step?
We walk through why s*x is more than a physical outlet. It’s connection, “knowing,” and covenant communion. Then we slow down in 1 Corinthians 7, a passage that often gets quoted to demand s*x, and we add the missing context: Paul is offering concession in a s*xually broken culture, not giving a license for coercion. We also discuss the reality that a s*xless marriage can signal deeper issues like pain, postpartum recovery, trauma, resentment, or relational rupture, and that healing usually requires patience and care rather than pressure.
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