09/03/2026
Marcia Unell
Here I am, in a new temple that is still becoming itself. I feel the weight of memory and the pull of familiarity, as I try to understand how holiness travels with us when a sacred space changes.
When I first entered our old temple as a young adult, I could not have imagined how deeply it would become woven into the fabric of my life. Within those walls I celebrated joyous milestones, mourned painful losses, and marked countless moments in between. It was there that I felt connected not only to my community, but also to those who came before me. After my parents passed away, I often felt their presence most strongly in that sacred space. The building held memories of them and of the many experiences we shared as a family. Over time, the temple became more than a building; it became a spiritual home.
As we move into a new temple, I have found myself reflecting on what makes a place holy. Beautiful architecture can inspire us, but holiness is created by something deeper. A holy place is formed when people gather to pray, learn, celebrate, grieve, and support one another. It is created through relationships, traditions, and shared experiences. Holiness grows when a community brings its values, its hopes, and its hearts into a space.
The first time I visited the new building, I felt both excitement and uncertainty. It was unfamiliar, and I missed the comfort of the old surroundings. But on my second visit, something shifted. I found myself able to exhale. I realized that what I was reconnecting with was not simply a building, but my community. Looking around, I saw others adjusting as well, carrying their own memories while creating new ones together.
That experience reminded me that sacredness does not remain behind in an old building. We bring it with us. The new temple will become holy not because of its walls, but because of the lives that will unfold within them. In time, it too will hold our celebrations, our sorrows, our prayers, and our memories. And in that way, it will become home.