06/23/2026
Psalms 127:1a
"Unless the Lord builds a house, the work of the builders is wasted." NLT
Marriage is heavily upon my thoughts today. We attended a beautiful wedding ceremony of our Godson last weekend and today is our 47th anniversary. There was a table with a Bible on it at the reception and we were asked to mark favorite verses with a note. The above is one of the verses I chose. It reminded me of the sacredness of the covenant we make with God and how important it is to build our home of the foundation of the Lord.
There were many, many times that I would not have believed that we would still be together after 47 years. The verse above is the reason and the only reason it has worked - the Lord! Unless the Lord builds the house, it cannot stand. We stand before God on the day we enter into covenant with our spouse and make commitments to love, honor and cherish each other the rest of our lives. Sounds easy - right? Wrong!! It is a daily walk of faith.
Our marriage is to be a picture of the relationship between Christ and His Bride. Christ has given us unconditional love so we are called do the same with our spouse. How, you might ask? How do you love when the going gets tough? Remember, love is not just an emotion, it is a commitment to CHOOSE love in spite of our faults and disagreements and to allow Christ to be the center. If we submit our will to God, then He will lead us through whatever challenges we face. When we choose to live focused on ourselves, the outcome is not always so good.
As a young person I thought love was all romantic feelings and being happy. Instead, I have learned it is a deep, abiding choice that we make to choose the path of love through Christ. It is truly a blessing to be one with each other and one with Christ. A 3-strand cord cannot be easily broken. (Ecclesiastes 4:12).
Let's choose love and let God be the lead in all of our relationships!