10/15/2026
💔 MY SON NEEDS ANSWERS
I believe it is time for people to know what my 17-year-old son, DaMariae, has been going through.
DaMariae has severe scoliosis. On October 3, 2025, he began halo traction, which continued until November 14, 2025. On November 14, he underwent an eight hour spinal fusion to correct his severe scoliosis.
He fought through so much, and he did an amazing job recovering. ❤️🩹
Before all of this happened, DaMariae was a normal, active 17-year-old. He could walk, jump, hop, skip, use the bathroom, bathe, get dressed, brush his teeth, and take care of himself completely independently.
Then everything changed.
Before his fall, DaMariae had already been telling me that when he got up every day, it felt like his hip needed to be "popped" before he could walk normally.
Then, in June 2026, he fell in the shower.
He did an amazing job protecting his back when he fell, but as his mother, I was terrified.
We immediately took him to the doctor. X-rays were done, and we were told everything looked good.
But something wasn't right.
DaMariae told us that after the fall, his hip felt like it had shifted. Slowly, his legs began to stop working the way they had before.
And the scariest part?
**He wasn't complaining about pain.**
His problem was his FUNCTION.
His mobility continued to decline.
He went from being completely independent to needing a walker just to get around.
He now needs help using the bathroom, bathing, getting dressed, brushing his teeth, and doing other everyday things that he once did completely on his own.
My 17-year-old son who could walk, jump, hop, skip and take care of himself now needs assistance around the clock.
We've done everything we've been told to do.
He's doing intense physical therapy 5–6 days a week.
We had neurological testing done. During the examination, when his knee was tapped to check his reflex, his leg did not kick out as expected.
We're also waiting for a nerve test and are currently on the waiting list.
But we still don't have answers.
And as his mother, THAT is what is breaking my heart.
I'm not looking for sympathy.
I'm looking for answers.
I know my child.
I know what DaMariae could do before this happened.
I know how he walked.
I know how independent he was.
I know how much his life has changed.
And I refuse to believe that we should simply accept this new reality without understanding WHY it is happening.
🙏🏽 I'm asking everyone who reads this to please pray for my son.
Pray for his legs.
Pray for his strength.
Pray for his mobility.
Pray for his nervous system.
Pray for his doctors to have wisdom and discernment.
Pray that whatever is causing this will be identified.
Pray that the right doctor, the right test, and the right answer will find DaMariae.
Most importantly, pray that God completely restores my baby's body and his independence.
I believe God is still a healer.
I believe God is still a way maker.
And I believe there are answers even when we don't have them yet.
🙏🏽Please keep Da'Mariae lifted in prayer.
And if you are a medical professional who has experience with severe scoliosis, spinal fusion, progressive leg weakness, or neurological complications after spinal surgery, I would be grateful for any guidance about what questions we should be asking his medical team.
**We just need answers.**
Thanks for reading
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