09/07/2026
I finally came to understand something that took my heart a long time to accept: "I am not always meant to be a permanent character in everyone’s story."
Sometimes I am simply a presence for a particular season, a familiar voice when life is heavy, a quiet place of comfort, a lesson carried long after the moment itself has passed.
And perhaps that is why I have stayed in places longer than I should have, because my heart has always had difficulty distinguishing between being needed for a season and being wanted for a lifetime.
I stayed because I cared.
I stayed because I hoped.
I stayed because somewhere inside me, I believed that if I loved deeply enough, gave freely enough, forgave often enough, and remained faithfully enough, perhaps temporary would eventually become permanent.
But some doors were never meant to become addresses. Some people are assignments, not destinations. Some relationships are bridges, not homes.
So when I finally leave, it is because I finally understood that I had been trying to live permanently in a place where I was only meant to visit. And I am learning to be at peace with that.
Maybe I was sent into someone’s life to encourage, maybe I carried a word they needed, offered a shoulder when theirs could carry no more, or left a little light in a room where darkness had become familiar.
Scripture says, “To every thing there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven.” Ecclesiastes 3:1.
And a season does not lose its significance because it ends.
Some things are sacred because they stayed; others, because they came at exactly the right time.
Not possession, but purpose.
Not forever, but "...for such a time as this."
So if my place in your life was only temporary, I pray my impact was eternal.