Immaculate Conception Parish, East Aurora

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08/31/2026

There is a correction to this past weekend's bulletin. The first day of school for Immaculate Conception School - East Aurora is Tuesday September 8th.

Robinson Paving working hard to make our parking lot look fantastic!
08/05/2026

Robinson Paving working hard to make our parking lot look fantastic!

08/03/2026

Just a reminder that the parking lot is closed for paving this week. The Parish office is open but you will need to park on the street.
Thank you for your understanding!

The new school roof is progressing!!! This is only possible thanks to the generosity of our donors and a grant from The ...
07/07/2026

The new school roof is progressing!!! This is only possible thanks to the generosity of our donors and a grant from The Foundation of the Roman Catholic Diocese of Buffalo.

05/25/2026
05/17/2026

Brothers and Sisters,

There is a hidden suffering within the Church today that many people rarely see.

Behind the homilies, the smiles at the parish door, the sacraments, the meetings, the hospital visits, and the long hours of ministry, many priests are quietly carrying tremendous burdens.

Some are exhausted.
Some are discouraged.
Some feel deeply alone.

Many priests today are trying to shepherd multiple parishes with limited staff and shrinking resources. They are expected to preach with wisdom, counsel the brokenhearted, administer parishes, resolve conflicts, lead communities, answer criticism with patience, and remain spiritually strong while often having very little time to rest themselves.

And because priests are ordained to serve, many continue pouring themselves out long after they are emotionally, physically, and spiritually depleted.

The people of God often see the priest at the altar.
But they do not always see the man who returns to an empty rectory afterward.
They do not always see the fatigue.
They do not always see the discouragement that can come when parishioners drift away from the faith, when criticism becomes constant, or when the weight of responsibility begins to feel crushing.

And yet the priest continues showing up.

He baptizes.
He buries the dead.
He anoints the sick.
He hears confessions.
He celebrates the Holy Eucharist.
He carries souls before God every single day.

That is why the Church must never stop praying for her priests.

The priesthood is not merely a profession.
It is a sacrificial vocation configured to the very heart of Christ.

At every Mass, the priest stands in the person of Christ Himself. He gives his life so that others may encounter the grace of God. And because the priest belongs to Christ in such a profound way, spiritual attacks against priests are often fierce.

The enemy knows that when a shepherd grows weary, the flock also suffers.

But there is also an important truth priests themselves must continually remember:
The Church does not belong to them.

It belongs to Christ.

The parish is not “their” parish.
The people are not “their” people.
The ministry is not “their” mission.

Everything belongs to God.

This truth is not meant to diminish the priest’s responsibility. Rather, it frees him from carrying burdens that only Christ can carry.

Sometimes priests begin to believe—slowly and unintentionally—that the survival of everything depends entirely upon them. They carry the weight of every financial concern, every family conflict, every declining attendance number, every criticism, every disappointment, every soul who walks away from the Church.

And over time, that weight becomes unbearable.

But the priest was never called to be the Savior.
Jesus Christ already fulfills that role.

The priest is called to be faithful.
To preach the Gospel.
To administer the sacraments.
To love the people entrusted to him.
To lead souls toward Christ.

But ultimately, conversion belongs to God.
The Church belongs to God.
The harvest belongs to God.

How important it is for priests to hear again the words of Our Lord:
“My grace is sufficient for you.”

Even the apostles experienced discouragement. Saint Peter knew failure and weakness. Saint Paul spoke openly about exhaustion, persecution, and hardship. Yet they learned that the strength of ministry comes not from human perfection, but from surrender to Christ.

This is where true spiritual leadership begins.

Leadership within the Church is not about controlling every outcome.
It is not about becoming everything for everyone.
It is not about building personal success.

It is about humility.
It is about fidelity.
It is about pointing souls toward Jesus Christ.

A holy priest understands that his task is not to replace Christ, but to reveal Christ.

And part of that means learning to trust that God is still working even when the priest feels inadequate, overwhelmed, or tired.

The Church has survived persecution, scandals, wars, divisions, and centuries of hardship not because of human brilliance, but because Christ Himself sustains His Church.

As Our Lord said:
“The gates of hell shall not prevail against it.”

That promise still remains true.

This is also a moment for the laity to examine their own hearts. Too often Catholics expect their priests to carry impossible expectations without offering encouragement, gratitude, or support.

A priest may hear complaints every week while rarely hearing appreciation.
He may spend hours helping others while quietly carrying his own crosses alone.

A simple word of encouragement can matter more than people realize.
A sincere promise of prayer can strengthen a weary heart.
A parish that supports its priest spiritually becomes a source of consolation instead of another burden.

The priest does not need perfection from his people.
He needs prayer.
He needs charity.
He needs understanding.
He needs faithful Catholics willing to share in the mission of the Church instead of placing the entire weight upon his shoulders.

Saint John Vianney once said, “The priesthood is the love of the heart of Jesus.” What a profound mystery that is. Through fragile human men, Christ continues feeding His people with grace.

And so today, the Church must remember her priests with compassion.

Pray for the priest who is discouraged.
Pray for the priest carrying hidden loneliness.
Pray for the priest who feels exhausted.
Pray for the priest trying to remain faithful in difficult times.
Pray for the priest who wonders whether his work is making any difference.

And if you have a faithful priest in your life, encourage him. Thank him. Support him.

Because behind every faithful priest is often a man carrying far more than anyone realizes.

But to every priest, Christ gently speaks this truth once more:

“This is My Church.
These are My people.
Walk faithfully beside them, but do not carry alone what only I can hold.”

And when priests finally place the Church back into the hands of Christ, they rediscover the peace that first called them to the altar.

Congratulations to our trustee Tim Lafferty who was awarded one of the 2026 distinguished alumni awards from the East Au...
05/07/2026

Congratulations to our trustee Tim Lafferty who was awarded one of the 2026 distinguished alumni awards from the East Aurora educational foundation

Four of our young people participated in the Diocesan Youth Rally yesterday. The keynote speaker was Tony Melendez who i...
04/27/2026

Four of our young people participated in the Diocesan Youth Rally yesterday. The keynote speaker was Tony Melendez who inspired everyone with his witness. Tony plays the guitar with his feet because he was born without arms.

Our 3 Gullo boys were in a Conversation Session with Bishop Michael Fisher. Bishop Mike loves Scouting, so he asked the boys what rank they were and was excited to hear that John just completed his Eagle Scout Project. Bishop Mike shared the time he spent on his own Eagle Project and noted that you're always an Eagle.

Our Lia was happy to see the teens she went to NCYC with in November again. The day included a Q & A Panel that gave youth the opportunity to ask questions about our faith. It concluded with Mass presided by our Bishop. The whole day was a sign of hope for our Church!

04/23/2026

Let us pray for the repose of the soul of Rev. Robert W. Wardenski. Eternal rest grant upon him, O Lord, and let perpetual light shine upon him. May he rest in peace. 🙏

Rev. Wardenski will lie in repose on Thursday, April 23, 2026 from 4-8 pm and again on Friday, April 24, 2026 from 9-10 am at Immaculate Conception Church, East Aurora. A Mass of Christian Burial will immediately follow at 10 am.

Fr Bob's full obituary
04/21/2026

Fr Bob's full obituary

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520 Oakwood Avenue
East Aurora, NY
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