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Eph 5:31-32:
31 “For this reason a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh.”
32 This is a great mystery, but I speak concerning Christ and the church.

01/04/2025

FROM GIRL TO WIFE: THE JOURNEY OF SELF-DISCOVERY AND GROWTH

The Bible says in Proverbs 18:22, "He who finds a wife finds a good thing, And obtains favor from the LORD.

This scripture holds a profound truth that every woman should grasp. To be found as a wife, you must first become a wife within yourself. This means that being a wife is not just a title or a role, but a state of being that requires growth, maturity, and self-development.

Many women make the mistake of thinking that marriage is the ultimate goal, and that finding a husband is the key to happiness. However, the Bible says "he who finds a wife," not "he who finds a girl" or "he who finds a woman." This distinction is crucial. A wife is not just a female, but a woman who has cultivated herself to be a partner, a helper, and a companion. She is a woman who has extracted the qualities of a wife from within herself and is ready to be seen.

Some women may be technically married, but they are not truly living within the context of their marriage. Instead, they are existing outside of it or in opposition to it.

Therefore, if you're still struggling to find yourself, your identity, and your purpose, then you're not yet ready to be found as a wife. Marriage is not for girls who are still figuring out who they are or what they want. It's not for women who are just looking for a man to complete them. Marriage is for women who have become wives, who have grown in maturity, wisdom, and character. So, take the time to work on yourself, to develop your inner qualities, and to become the best version of yourself. Only then will you be ready to be found as a wife. 💑💑

ACTION STEP

Take the time to work on yourself, to develop your inner qualities!

07/02/2025

THE PILLAR OF CONSTANT VIGILANCE AGAINST THE FORBIDDEN FRUIT

Genesis 3:6 (GNB) The woman saw how beautiful the tree was and how good its fruit would be to eat, and she thought how wonderful it would be to become wise. So she took some of the fruit and ate it. Then she gave some to her husband, and he also ate it.

Marriage is a sacred institution ordained by God, governed by set principles and pillars that provide a foundation for a healthy and fulfilling relationship. However, there exists a subtle yet potent threat to the sanctity of marriage - the forbidden fruit. This metaphorical fruit represents the temptations and influences that can infiltrate the marital garden, undermining the very fabric of the relationship.

The forbidden fruit is often disguised as attractive and pleasant, making it alluring and enticing. It can manifest as seemingly harmless suggestions or ideas presented by one's partner, which, if not carefully examined, can lead to compromise and corruption. As couples, it is essential to recognize that not every idea or suggestion, no matter how well-intentioned, is permissible in the marital garden.

Wives, in particular, may feel frustrated if their ideas or suggestions are not accepted or valued by their husbands. However, it is crucial to understand that the rejection of these ideas is not a personal rejection, but rather a safeguard against the introduction of forbidden fruit into the marital garden. Husbands must exercise wisdom and discernment, carefully evaluating every suggestion or idea presented to them, to ensure that it aligns with God's principles and does not compromise the integrity of the marriage.

The consequences of allowing forbidden fruit into the marital garden can be devastating. It can lead to a gradual erosion of trust, respect, and intimacy, ultimately threatening the very foundation of the marriage. As couples, we must prioritize the long-term joys and benefits of marriage over temporary pleasures or gratifications. We must be willing to make sacrifices and compromises that align with God's principles, rather than succumbing to the pressure of worldly influences or personal desires.

In conclusion, the marital garden requires constant vigilance and protection against the forbidden fruit. Couples must work together, exercising wisdom, discernment, and commitment to God's principles, to safeguard their marriage and ensure that it remains a vibrant and flourishing reflection of God's love and design.

ACTION STEP

Identity potential "forbidden fruit" by figuring out areas where you may be vulnerable to temptations or compromise.

07/02/2025

THE PILLAR OF PLANNING TOGETHER

NCV Matthew 18:19 “Also, I tell you that if two of you on earth agree about something and pray for it, it will be done for you by my Father in heaven.
20 This is true because if two or three people come together in my name, I am there with them.”

As couples, one of the essential pillars of a strong and healthy marriage is planning together. This involves having a united vision, sharing ideas, and making decisions collectively. A wise man should periodically have a house council where he plans with his wife and children. When God sees that we plan together, He blesses our endeavors.

In essence, having a family court or council where we discuss and plan our affairs together is vital. This is not just limited to major decisions but also extends to our daily lives, including our work, finances, and parenting. By doing so, we create an environment where God can intervene and bless our plans. When we plan alone without involving our spouse or seeking God's guidance, our efforts may not yield the desired results.

The true value of planning as a man lies not in achieving the desired outcome, but in the shared joy and sense of unity that comes from involving your wife in the planning process. When a husband takes the time to include his wife in the decision-making process, it sends a powerful message that her thoughts, feelings, and opinions are valued and respected. This, in turn, fosters a deeper sense of connection and collaboration, creating a sense of shared ownership and responsibility for the plans and goals they're working towards.

By involving your wife in the planning process, you're not only showing her that you value her input, but you're also creating opportunities for her to feel seen, heard, and understood. This can lead to a greater sense of harmony and unity in the relationship, as well as a deeper sense of trust and intimacy. So, while achieving your goals is certainly important, it's the shared joy and sense of connection that comes from planning together that truly matters.

Therefore, as couples, let us make it a priority to plan together, and seek God's wisdom in all our endeavors. Whether it's discussing our daily schedules, making financial decisions, or planning for the future, let us do it together. By doing so, we will create a strong foundation for our marriage, and God will bless our plans, leading us to a more harmonious, prosperous, and fulfilling life together.

ACTION STEP

Apply the principle of planning together, and make it a priority to plan together, and seek God's wisdom in all your endeavors.

05/02/2025

The Pillar Of flexibility

Philippians 2:3-4 (TPT) 3 Be free from pride-filled opinions, for they will only harm your cherished unity. Don’t allow self-promotion to hide in your hearts, but in authentic humility put others first and view others as more important than yourselves.
4 Abandon every display of selfishness. Possess a greater concern for what matters to others instead of your own interests.

Flexibility is a vital pillar in any successful marriage. It enables couples to adapt to changing circumstances, navigate uncertainty, and capitalize on new opportunities. In a marriage setting, flexibility can help couples to better manage conflicts, communicate more effectively, and build a stronger, more resilient relationship.

To cultivate flexibility in marriage, you should consider staying adaptable. This means being open to new ideas, perspectives, and approaches that your partner may bring to the table. By being adaptable, as couples we can learn to appreciate each other's differences and find common ground, even in the midst of disagreement.

Another key aspect of flexibility in marriage is prioritizing and focusing on the most critical tasks and adjusting priorities as needed. This can help us to manage our time and energy more effectively, and to ensure that we are working together to achieve our shared goals.

Developing a growth mindset is also essential for flexibility in marriage. This means viewing challenges as opportunities for growth and development, rather than as threats or obstacles. By adopting a growth mindset, we can learn to approach challenges with a sense of curiosity and adventure, rather than fear and resistance.

Finally, flexibility in marriage requires us as couples to be prepared to adjust our plans in response to changing circumstances. This can be difficult, especially when we are used to having a clear plan and sticking to it. However, by learning to be more flexible and adaptable, we can build a stronger, more resilient relationship that is better equipped to handle the challenges and uncertainties of life.

*ACTION STEP:*

Major on the Majors by focusing on the big-picture of issues that matter most in your marriage.

Minor on the Minors by learning to let go of minor issues that can cause unnecessary conflict and stress.

05/02/2025

The Pillar Of Mutual Growth & Support

NLT'15 Ecclesiastes 4:9-10: Two people are better off than one, for they can help each other succeed. If one person falls, the other can reach out and help. But someone who falls alone is in real trouble.

As couples, our relationship is built on the foundation of mutual growth and support. We come together with the intention of making each other better, of lifting each other up, and of helping each other reach our full potential. This means being each other's rock, providing a safe and nurturing environment where we can both flourish. We are to support each other's dreams, aspirations, and goals, offering encouragement and motivation when needed.

Building each other up is a crucial aspect of our relationship. We should strive to create a sense of safety and security, where we both feel comfortable sharing our thoughts, feelings, and desires. This involves being open, honest, and transparent with each other, and creating a space where we can both grow and learn together. By doing so, we can develop a deeper understanding of each other, and foster a sense of trust and loyalty that is essential for a healthy and fulfilling relationship.

Believing in each other is also vital to our relationship. When we believe in each other, we create a sense of confidence and self-assurance that can help us overcome even the toughest challenges. We should strive to be each other's biggest cheerleader, offering words of affirmation and support whenever needed. By believing in each other, we can create a sense of unity and teamwork that can help us achieve our goals and realize our dreams.

Finally, our relationship should be a source of peace, not a problem. We should strive to create a sense of calm and tranquility, where we both feel comfortable and at ease. This involves being patient, understanding, and compassionate with each other, and creating a space where we can both relax and recharge. By doing so, we can create a sense of harmony and balance that can help us navigate even the most challenging times.

*ACTION STEP:*

Help your partner to succeed!

05/02/2025

The Pillar Of Understanding & Respect

NCV 1 Corinthians 13:5-7
Love is not rude, is not selfish, and does not get upset with others. Love does not count up wrongs that have been done. Love takes no pleasure in evil but rejoices over the truth. Love patiently accepts all things. It always trusts, always hopes, and always endures.

Dear couples, as we navigate the complexities of marriage, it's essential to approach each other with understanding, respect, and an open mind. To our dear ladies, I want to address a crucial point. Having a negative experience with one man should not lead you to generalize and label all men as "dogs" or "animals." Not only is this unfair, but it also disregards the positive influences of the men in your life, such as your father, son, and brother.

It's essential to recognize that men, just like women, are individuals with unique characteristics, values, and behaviors. While some men may exhibit inhumane behavior, there are many others who are kind, caring, loving, and amazing. It's crucial to avoid making sweeping statements that can be hurtful and damaging to the men in your life.

Moreover, ladies, not every man who shows you kindness and willingness to help has ulterior motives. There are men who have been raised with values of respect, empathy, and compassion, and they will treat you with the dignity and care that you deserve. These men are worthy of celebration and appreciation.

To our dear men, I encourage you to continue being the positive influence in your marriage. Treat your partner with respect, kindness, and empathy, and always strive to be understanding and supportive.

As couples, let's work together to build each other up, rather than tearing each other down. Let's celebrate the positive qualities in each other and strive to create a culture of respect, empathy, and understanding in our relationships.

*ACTION STEP:*

Continue being the positive influence in your marriage

05/02/2025

The pillar of Peace

TPT Ephesians 4:3: Be faithful to guard the sweet harmony of the Holy Spirit among you in the bonds of peace,

Peace that exists between a husband and wife is precious in the sight of God. This harmony is a blessing to God, and it brings Him honor when a married couple lives in unity and love. When a husband and wife commit themselves to upholding this peace, they demonstrate their devotion to God and to each other. In fact, God is so invested in preserving this peace that He is willing to sacrifice temporary truth for the sake of long-term harmony.

This means that, in certain situations, God may allow misunderstandings or imperfections to persist in order to maintain the greater good of peace and unity in the marriage. This therefore means, God may allow small issues or imperfections in a marriage to remain unresolved or unaddressed in order to maintain peace and unity in the relationship. In other words, God may prioritize the overall harmony and stability of the marriage over resolving every minor issue or conflict.

By prioritizing harmony and love, a husband and wife can create a sanctuary of peace that reflects God's love and brings joy to those around them.

*ACTION STEP:*

Pursue peace with your spouse, and holiness, without which no one will see the goodness of marriage

05/02/2025

The Pillar Of Unit

NKJV Mark 3:25: And if a house is divided against itself, that house cannot stand.

As we navigate the journey of life as couples, we should come to the point of realizing that prayer is a powerful tool for building unity and strength in our relationship. Rather than fighting each other, we must learned to join forces to fight the problems that threaten to tear us apart. As the Bible reminds us in Mark that, "A house divided against itself cannot stand". By praying together, we invite God into our relationship, seeking His guidance, wisdom, and strength.

When we pray together, we focus on the problems that are causing tension and conflict, rather than attacking each other. By doing so, we confront the real enemy – the problem itself – rather than each other. As Paul reminds us, "For our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the powers of this dark world and against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly realms" (Ephesians 6:12). This mindset shift has been instrumental in helping us to approach our problems with a united front.

By praying together, we can also cultivate a deeper understanding of each other's needs, desires, and concerns. As we seek God's wisdom and guidance, we gain a fresh perspective on our problems and find creative solutions that we may not have thought of otherwise.

The next time you face a conflict or challenge, make a conscious effort to reframe it as a problem to be solved together, rather than against each other. By doing so, you'll begin to see each other as allies, rather than adversaries, and work together to find solutions.

*ACTION STEP:*

Reframe Conflict as a united effort.

05/02/2025

The Pillar of Surrender, Forgiveness, and Love

The most important thing in marriage is not finding the right person, but being the right person.

Marriage is a sacred institution ordained by God, and its success hinges on the character and qualities of the individuals involved. While it's common to focus on finding the perfect partner, the Bible reminds us that being the right person is far more crucial. As the apostle Paul wrote, "Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud" (1 Corinthians 13:4).

Being the right person in marriage means cultivating qualities like love, patience, kindness, and humility. It involves recognizing that marriage is a journey of growth, forgiveness, and mutual support. As Ephesians 5:25-33 exhorts husbands to love their wives as Christ loves the church, and for wives to respect and submit to their husbands, it's clear that marriage requires a willingness to serve and prioritize one another.

Rather than focusing solely on finding someone who meets our expectations, we should strive to become the kind of person who can build a strong, healthy, and loving marriage. This involves surrendering our own desires and interests to God, asking Him to shape us into the best version of ourselves, and trusting that He will bring us together with someone who shares our values and commitment to Him.

Ultimately, being the right person in marriage requires a deepening relationship with God, a willingness to learn and grow, and a commitment to loving and serving our partner with humility and kindness. As we prioritize these qualities, we'll be better equipped to build a strong, lasting, and fulfilling marriage that honors God.

*ACTION STEP*

Put a good character first!
Be right and act right!

05/02/2025

The Pillar Of Love_l

TPT 1 Corinthians 13:4-7:
4 Love is large and incredibly patient. Love is gentle and consistently kind to all. It refuses to be jealous when blessing comes to someone else. Love does not brag about one’s achievements nor inflate its own importance.
5 Love does not traffic in shame and disrespect, nor selfishly seek its own honor. Love is not easily irritated or quick to take offense.
6 Love joyfully celebrates honesty and finds no delight in what is wrong.
7 Love is a safe place of shelter, for it never stops believing the best for others. Love never takes failure as defeat, for it never gives up.

As we navigate the ups and downs of life together as couples, it's essential to remember that our relationships are a beautiful blend of love, trust, and commitment. Just like a masterpiece that requires effort and dedication to create, our relationships need nurturing and care to flourish.

Today, let's make a conscious effort to prioritize communication, empathy, and understanding in our relationships. Let's celebrate our differences and find strength in our unity. As we journey together, may our love continue to be the anchor that holds us strong, the guiding light that illuminates our path, and the safe haven where we can always find peace and comfort in each other's arms.

05/02/2025

The 4 Pillars Of A Strong Marriage:

Building a strong foundation in marriage is crucial for any couple who desires a lasting and fulfilling relationship.

*Mutual Submission*

As saints, we are called to submit to one another out of reverence for Christ (Ephesians 5:21). This means that we should yield to each other in love and respect. When we practice mutual submission, we create an environment of humility and harmony in our marriage.

*Selfless Love*

Another essential pillar of a strong marriage is selfless love. Husbands, in particular, are called to love their wives just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her (Ephesians 5:25). This kind of love is not selfish or conditional, but rather it is a sacrificial love that puts the needs of our spouse above our own. When we love each other selflessly, we demonstrate the love of Christ to each other and those around us.

*Effective Communication*

Effective communication is also vital in any marriage. The Bible reminds us that our words have the power to build up or tear down (Ephesians 4:29-32). As couples, we must make a conscious effort to communicate with each other in a loving, respectful, and constructive manner. This means avoiding hurtful words and actions, and instead seeking to understand and support each other.

*Unit in Prayer*

Finally, united prayer and worship are essential for building a strong spiritual foundation in our marriage. Jesus promises that when two or three come together in his name, he will be present with them (Matthew 18:19-20). When we pray and worship together, we invite God's presence and power into our marriage, and we are strengthened to face the challenges of life together. As we seek to build a strong marriage, let us remember to prioritize mutual submission, selfless love, effective communication, and united prayer and worship.

ACTION STEP

Do the needful!!

- Take time to reflect on your marriage and identify areas where you can improve.
- Pray together as a couple, seeking God's guidance and strength.
- Make a conscious effort to practice mutual submission, selfless love, effective communication, and united prayer and worship.

24/01/2025

THE POWER OF SURRENDER, FORGIVENESS, AND LOVE

The most important thing in marriage is not finding the right person, but being the right person.

Marriage is a sacred institution ordained by God, and its success hinges on the character and qualities of the individuals involved. While it's common to focus on finding the perfect partner, the Bible reminds us that being the right person is far more crucial. As the apostle Paul wrote, "Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud" (1 Corinthians 13:4).

Being the right person in marriage means cultivating qualities like love, patience, kindness, and humility. It involves recognizing that marriage is a journey of growth, forgiveness, and mutual support. As Ephesians 5:25-33 exhorts husbands to love their wives as Christ loves the church, and for wives to respect and submit to their husbands, it's clear that marriage requires a willingness to serve and prioritize one another.

Rather than focusing solely on finding someone who meets our expectations, we should strive to become the kind of person who can build a strong, healthy, and loving marriage. This involves surrendering our own desires and interests to God, asking Him to shape us into the best version of ourselves, and trusting that He will bring us together with someone who shares our values and commitment to Him.

Ultimately, being the right person in marriage requires a deepening relationship with God, a willingness to learn and grow, and a commitment to loving and serving our partner with humility and kindness. As we prioritize these qualities, we'll be better equipped to build a strong, lasting, and fulfilling marriage that honors God.

ACTION STEP

Put a good character first!
Be right and act right!

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