20/02/2026
Ephesians 5:22 Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord. 5:23 For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church: and he is the saviour of the body.
Marriage has got a format and it is not man-made. Psalms 127:1 Except the LORD build the house, they labour in vain that build it: except the LORD keep the city, the watchman waketh but in vain.
The author of marriage is God and He must not be excluded in it, those that do it will do it in vain. God lives in us by His Spirit, and it is Him, the Holy Spirit, who came to teach us all things. Wives cannot submit to their own husbands without the Holy Spirit and husbands cannot love their wives without the Holy Spirit. He teaches those in marriage to be able to live according to the format, if they are willing to be led by Him. We resist or reject the Holy Spirit's leading hence grieving Him but He actually wants to teach us about how to live with our spouses, thats why Jesus Christ sent Him, for He knew we cannot do anything right without Him living in us. We think when one makes a mistake in marriage, we can solve it on our own, the author of marriage is there and is always ready to correct everything when we are willing to involve Him, that He may be all of your marriage not part of it.
Happy marriage