Marriage Encounter Zambia

12/03/2023

not giving cash and not answering calls

19/08/2022

In Marriage,Don't change your Partner.Change Your self.

11/04/2022

*TOO LATE TO APOLOGISE "AND WHAT REALLY HAPPENED*

"Where are you coming from by this time of the night?"

He thundered.

"Honey you won't believe what happened today. Oh God I'm so tired right now." She replied as she yawned.

"I asked where you are coming from and you are vomiting rubbish.
Does that answer my question? Are you trying to pretend you don't
know that there's no food in this house?"

He said fuming.

"Honey I'm sorry but you should hear me out first. I...."

Before she could complete that sentence, a thunderous slap kissed her left cheek and she passed out on the sofa.

"Get my dinner ready, after that you will tell me why you switched off
your phone."

He said as he walked towards the bedroom.
When he noticed there was no response from his wife, he was infuriated.

He rushed towards her to unleash the rest of the demon in him but on
getting close to her, he discovered she has passed out.

He was shocked. Cold sweat appeared on his forehead and raced down his temple.

Fear gripped him.
He began to panic.
He dashed into the bedroom, picked his car key and darted out of the
house to open his car.

He rushed back into the house almost immediately, lifted his wife and headed to his car.

As he made to start the ignition, the car key fell off his hand. He was visibly shaking.

Picking up the car key proved to be a difficult task to him as he
couldn't get hold of it.

He succeeded but had to use both hands to start the car ignition. His
shaky hands turned against him. His heart was racing.

He couldn't hold the steering firmly but he managed to drive his way to the hospital.

Getting to the hospital, he alerted the nurses. His wife was rushed into
the emergency ward.
He became restless.

After about five minutes, his doctor appeared to him. "Good evening Mr Collins." "Good evening doctor, how's my wife?"
He said with great panic.

*"Your wife was here few hours ago.* *She brought your mum to the hospital before going home and if she had been ten minutes late,* *your mum would have died,*

*She wanted to alert you but her phone battery went flat.* *I would have*
*called you but she said *she will notify you when she get home.*

*What really happened?"*

The doctor asked.

*"Doctor, is my wife okay?"*

*He asked with teary eyes.*

*"Your mum is in the other ward Mr Collins."*

*The doctor replied.*

He couldn't hide his impatience as he gripped the doctor's shirt.

*"What about my wife doctor? Is she okay?"*

The doctor managed to pull his hands off his shirt before letting the cat out of the bag.

*"I'm sorry Mr Collins, your wife couldn't make it.* *She's dead.*

*He was shocked.*

*Cold shivers ran down his spine.*

*He began to shake.*

*Hot tears welled up his eyes and as he made an attempt to speak,* *they*
*raced down his cheeks.*

Liquid fluids leaked out of his nostrils and wetted his lips. His shirt became drenched with sweat.

*He wanted to man up but he couldn't.*

*He groaned in pain and let out a mad shout.*

*"Noooooo!!!"*

*But then, it was too late to correct his mistake.*
*He should have heard her first as requested by her.*

*He should have controlled his anger.*

*He shouldn't have laid his hand on her.*

*He should have been patient with her.*

He shouldn't have....

He should have....

*But he didn't.*

*It was too late to apologize.*

*Don't make such a mistake.*

*SAY NO TO DOMESTIC VIOLENCE!!!*

* # let love lead #*

* # Stop Fighting #*

* Domestic Violence #*

* # Be an Understanding Husband and Wife #*

*The only difference between ANGER and DANGER is D*

*And that D* *represents* *DESTRUCTION, DAMAGE AND DEATH*.

*May God always help us to control our emotion rightly. Amen*

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04/01/2022

Loving your Partner is not a passport for abuse.Its an expression of love itself.

15/12/2021

Love is sacrifice you offer for the seek of your partner. No sweet without sweat. Love your wife/husband.

15/11/2021

*THE A, B, C OF INTIMACY IN MARRIAGE*

A: Always love your spouse.

B: Believe in each other.

C: Celebrate each other often.

D: Don't argue but always reason together.

E: Expect imperfections from your spouse.

F: Fix solutions to problems on time.

G: Go for a walk together once a week.

H: Hold each other's hands often.

I: Ignite the passion in your spouse daily.

J: Just laugh over issues worth criticizing.

K: Kill the spirit of unhealthy competition.

L: Let your spouse know your movements.

M: Make love like newly weds.

N: No separate room for you both.

O: Oppose any intruder or third party.

P: Pray together always.

Q: Quality time should be spent together.

R: Resist every temptation of infidelity.

S: Stay positive to each other's vision.

T: Take no record of past offence.

U: Utilize every opportunity to bond.

V: Visualize a glorious future together.

W: Win each other's admiration daily.

X: X-ray your lives together.

Y: Yell not at each other for any reason.

Z: Zip your mouth when you're angry.

If you're blessed by this post, kindly share with your contacts and groups; you may save a marriage by doing so.

May Almighty God bless your marriage real good.

❤🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹❤

04/08/2021

Marriage is not a club of written rules. It's a bond of unfailing love.

11/01/2021

Post to all married couple.

TEN (10) GOLDEN SECRETS OF MARRIAGE:
TO THOSE WHO ARE MARRIED AND THOSE PREPARING TO GET MARRIED SOON

1. EVERYONE YOU MARRY HAS A WEAKNESS

Only God has no weakness. Every rose flower has its own thorn. If you focus too much on your spouse's weakness, you can't get the best out of his/her strength.

2. EVERYONE YOU MARRY HAS A DARK HISTORY

No one is an Angel, therefore, avoid digging one's past. What matters is the present life of your partner. Old things are passed away. try to forgive and forget. The past can't be change. So Focus on the present and the future!

3. EVERY MARRIAGE HAS IT'S OWN CHALLENGES

Marriage is not bed of roses. Every shinning marriage has gone through its own test of hot and excruciating fire. True love is proved in time of challenge. Fight for your marriage! Make up your mind to stay with your spouse in time of needs. Remember this is the vow you made on your wedding day!

4. EVERY MARRIAGE HAS DIFFERENT LEVELS OF SUCCESS

Don't compare your marriage with anyone! We can never be equal, some will be far in front and others far behind. To avoid marriage stresses, be patient, work hard and with time, your marriage dreams shall come true.

5. TO MARRY IS TO DECLARE A WAR

When you marry, you must declare a war against enemies of marriage. Some of the enemies of marriage are: Ignorance, Prayerlessness, Unforgiveness, Adultery, Third Party Influence, Stinginess, Stubbornness, Lack Of Love, Rudeness, Wife battery, Laziness, Divorce etc. Be ready to fight to maintain your marriage zone.

6. THERE IS NO PERFECT MARRIAGE

There is no ready made marriage anywhere. Marriage is hard work, volunteer yourself and perfect it daily. Marriage is like a CAR with Gear oil, gear box, back hassles and If this parts are not properly maintained, the car will brake down somewhere along the road and exposing the occupant to unhealthy circumstances. - Many of us are careless about our marriage... Are you? If you are, pls pay attention to your marriage.

7. GOD CANNOT GIVE YOU THE COMPLETE PERSON YOU DESIRE

He (God) gives you, him or her in the form of raw materials in order for you to mould what you desire. You may desire a woman who can pray for 1 hours but your wife can only pray for 30 minutes. With your love, prayer and encouragement, she can improve.

8. TO MARRY IS TO TAKE A RISK

You cannot predict what will happen after marriage, as situation may change, so, leave a room for adjustment. Pregnancy may not come in the next 4 years. You may get married to her because she's slim but she becomes 100% fatter after a child. He may lose his beautiful job for years that you have to take the financial responsibility of the family until he gets a new job. But with God by your side, you will smile at last.

9. MARRIAGE IS NOT A CONTRACT, IT IS PERMANENT

Marriage needs total commitment, love is the glue that makes a couple stick together. Divorce starts in the mind. Never think of divorce! Never threaten your spouse with divorce. Choose to remain married! God hates divorce

10. EVERY MARRIAGE HAS A PRICE TO PAY

Marriage is like a bank account. It is the money you deposit into your bank account that you can withdrawn. If you don't deposit love, peace and care into your marriage, you are not a candidate of a blissful home. There is no free love in marriage, You cannot love without giving and sacrificing.

May God Give us The Grace And Wisdom To Build A Heaven on Earth Marriage.

07/02/2020

Love your spouse everyday. Love has no season.

03/08/2019

Love is a choice .Your spouse is gift.

24/02/2018

Women's advice

Genevieve Nnaji. A Must Read and A Must Share

23 THINGS TO DO TO KEEP YOUR HUSBAND UNDER THE CONTROL OF YOUR LOVE
1. Call him by a pet name
2. Allow him exercise his authority as the head of the
family.
3. DO not challenge him when he is hurt.
4. Be silent when he is angry. You can go back to him in his sober moment with apology n explain why you
behave that way that annoyed him.
5. Be quick to say "I'm sorry dear" when ever you
offend him, insist on his forgiveness,appreciate and kiss him when he does.
6. Speak good of him before his Friends and siblings.
7. Honor his mother
8. Insist that he buys gift for his parents and so be
sure that he will do same for your parents
9. Surprise him with his favorite dish especially when
he has no money at hand and never delay his food.
10. Do not allow the maid to serve him food when you are at home. Because u may lose him to her.
11. Give him a warm reception with an embrace when
he returns, collect his luggage and help undress him.
12. Smile when you look at him and give him
occasional pecks when you are out socially.
13. Praise him before your children sometimes.
14. Wash his back while he is in the tub or shower.
15. Put love note in his lunch box or briefcase.
16. Phone and tell him that you miss him.
17. Dial his number and on hearing "hello" just tell him
I love you.
18. If he is a public figure or a politician, gently wake him at the early hours of the morning and romance him to the point of demand. He will not be entice by any
other woman that day.
19. Tell him how lucky you are to have him as your
husband.
20. Give him a hug for no reason.
21. Appreciate God for the Adam of your life.
22. Always remember to pray for him.
23. Pray together and also pray together before going to bed in the evening...
May God bless your marriages.
Singles may you experience true love today and forever.
May non-serious people that will waste your time be disconnected in your life In Jesus Name.
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