24/09/2026
If you're spiritually sensitive, if you have a father to child relationship with God, you can tell the moment you meet the one. Whether or not the relationship will work is a secondary assignment.
When you hear people say "when I met my wife, I knew she was the one. The moment I met my husband, God told me he is the one", do not doubt it. Even if it wasn't so clear at first, the voice of God has been discerned.
You can't be trusting God for a life partner yet so disconnected in the spirit. For some of you, God has given you certain instructions in the past which are pointers to how and when you'd meet your spouse but you're not sensitive to it.
Some people come into your life as friends, some as destiny friends, ministry associates, business partners etc. When the one God would have you journey with in marriage shows up, there will be a spiritual knowing.
The same way God tells you that a particular person is in your life as a destiny friend is the same way He'd tell you the one to marry. Stop expecting a gigantic leading when it comes to relationship.
Sometimes, God is speaking to you about someone but you're not paying attention to it because it doesn't look or sound deep. Divine leading doesn't have to be deep to make it one. It may not be deep yet God is in it.
You've been praying and trusting God for the bone of your bones, the question however is, how sensitive are you? Insensitivity and lack of discernment can make you stay single longer than you should. You won't know God has answered your prayer.
Singles, please cry to God for grace to discern people, seasons and circumstances. The devil is happy when God is doing a work in your life and you're completely oblivious to it. It's important that you know and understand what the will of God is per time.
Wherefore be ye not unwise, but understanding what the will of the Lord is. Ephesians 5:17