04/10/2024
WITHHOLDING TRUTH IS NOT LOVE
Lying to escape offending someone is now a norm and has wrongly been assumed to be an act of love. As long as withholding truth doesn't ignite conflict with a friend, truth can be preserved. This was never a practice by Jesus or the Apostles of old. The level of robustness displayed by Christ with the truth could have been misinterpreted as not walking in love in our present era. Sometimes we are too quick to conclude on what love is and what it's not just because truth has exposed a lie. God is the standard of love and the characteristics of this love were well defined in scriptures of which withholding truth is not part of it.
Imagine Jesus making clear the fate of the Pharisees as they refused to believe in Him. John 8:24 - "That is why I said that you will die in your sins; for unless you believe that I am who I say I am, you will die in your sins." Does that mean he never loved them? Should he have said it in a more mild way because He is love? There are numerous ways to salvage a lie to be believed as the truth, but there's no better way to say the truth. As painful, hurtful and harsh as it may sound, it should be said. Apostle Paul rebuked Peter over a wrong practice. You can't use that to claim Apostle Paul never loved Peter. Galatians 2:11 - "But when Peter came to Antioch, I had to oppose him publicly, speaking strongly against what he was doing, for it was very wrong."
Whether it will offend others, make them leave, cause them to hate you, truth should not be withheld. The truth of the gospel and the fate of those that refuse to believe should not be sugar quoted to escape offence. When a man does not believe, damnation awaits. Jesus did not promise us friendship with everyone. He said, Matthew 10:34-35 - "Don't imagine that I came to bring peace to the earth! No, I came to bring a sword. Vs.35 - I have come to set a man against his father, and a daughter against her mother, and a daughter-in-law against her mother-in-law." Stop prioritising your friendship over the truth, it's not love. Preach the truth in season and out of season, for withholding the truth is not love in any way.
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Jesus remains glorified...
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