20/07/2022
INTERPERSONAL RELATIONSHIPS STRUGGLE-
When people have lost interest in you, what do you think they do to comfort there "hidden Kleptomaniac disease" ? All of a sudden they become mispositioned past data analysts.
They travel back into 2 past timelines , theirs & yours to dig up any seemingly dirty stuff which must work in there favour. Now, because obsession to find faults is at peak; anything they dig will be treated as the truth & they will run with it like in a relay race. The hard part is; they get clouded & never considers the other side, the aim is" to fulfill there curiosity & satisfy there data hunger.They are never interested in your present or future, they do things in haste & make quick decisions as a form of self retribution & comfort.
Marriages do not end because of the future, they end because of the past & anything found in the past be it, lies, rumours, real mistakes , gossip & made up stories instantly becomes the truth & eventually, one partner who has lost interest will pass self verdict, more especially when love is sold to the third party & on that fact; be ready, because betrayal & enemity has been birthed.
In courts, the psychology of wrong judgement is that, when the judge passes the wrong verdict, it's never reversed, they will tell you that, they passed the verdict based on acquired facts & this is exactly what happens in relationships.
In Politics, attack never comes from the future, opponents gathers any related past data & manipulate it to comfort there cynic & effect arguments. I recall Sata saying, I was the one puting Levy's spilled brains together during the accident. 🙃😂, how?
Most people are not interested in your past to help you; family, friends & associates, they want to harm you with it or use it as a form of blackmail.
🧠Right or wrong; Stay away from arguments, you never know the true intents of people. The heart of man is craft.
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THE PSYCHOLOGY OF CONFLICT RESOLUTIONS.
Amos S.