29/08/2021
DAY TWENTY-NINE
29 August A TRUE FAMILY MAN
In the name of the father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit.
PRAYER TO MARY:
We fly to thy patronage, O Holy Mother of God; despise not our petitions in our necessities, but deliver us always from all dangers, O glorious and blessed virgin. Amen. (Ancient Prayer of the Church to the Blessed Virgin Mary.)
TSHIMANGADZO SAMUEL BENEDICT DASWA’S STORY
One of Benedict’s friends, a principal, spoke about Benedict’s attitude toward family life,
“When men were at a District meeting, Benedict said, ‘Men should help their wives, for example, if there is a baby at home and the Mother is busy, the Father should take care of the baby. The time has come for men to realise that we can do women’s work.’ Another man said, ‘Men should do men’s work, and women women’s work’. Benedict said, ‘No, even men can do women’s work. If the mother is busy washing, for instance, and a baby needs attention, the father should take care of that baby. If something happens to the little one, I can use a nappy to help the baby’.
Some men used to laugh at him, saying that he was overpowered by his wife. Benedict Daswa replied, ‘You will be looked down on if you are the boss in the family, yet do not help your wife, and expect that the women will do everything for you. Biologically, we are meant to help one another. There is nothing wrong if men do women’s work, and nothing wrong if women do men’s work’. We asked him, ‘Is that what you do?’ He replied, ‘Yes’, and gave some examples. The men thought to themselves, ‘Poor Daswa!’ Yet even if people disagreed with him, Benedict never changed his mind because he was convinced, he was right. Even today not every man would believe in sharing 50-50 at home”.
REFLECTION:
PRAYER TO IMPLORE FAVOURS:
O Blessed Trinity, you filled the heart of Blessed Tshimangadzo Benedict with great love and zeal in building up your kingdom. You chose him and gave him the courage and the strength to stand up for his faith without fear and bear witness unto death.
Loving God, like him, may we always proclaim the truth of the gospel of the Lord Jesus Christ by the witness of our lives. Keep us away from all deeds of darkness. Protect us from evil spirits and all the powers of evil. Make us a true Apostle of Life in our families and in society.
Father, through his intercession, and according to your will, grant us the grace that we ask of you (……..) we draw strength and courage from the life of Blessed Tshimangadzo Benedict whom we venerate as an intercessor and model of holiness. Through Christ our Lord. Amen.
HAIL MARY
Hail, Mary, full of grace, the Lord is with thee. Blessed art thou amongst women and blessed is the fruit of thy womb, Jesus.
Holy Mary, Mother of God, pray for us sinners, now and at the hour of our death. Amen.
Blessed Tshimangadzo Samuel Benedict Daswa Pray for us
Our Lady of Perpetual Help Pray for us