11/11/2024
*A GODLY HOME (1)*
*In building a godly home, the first port of call will be to identify that which makes a home, marriage being the starting point.*
Matthew 19:3 The Pharisees also came unto him, tempting him, and saying unto him, Is it lawful for a man to put away his wife for every cause?
Vs 4 And he answered and said unto them, Have ye not read, that he which made them at the beginning made them male and female,
Vs 5 And said, For this cause shall a man leave father and mother, and shall cleave to his wife: and they twain shall be one flesh?
Jesus answered a question posed by the Pharisees concerning marriage. He draws our attention to what marriage ought to be. Jesus makes reference to two texts from the book of Genesis.
Genesis 1:27 So God created man in his own image, in the image of God created he him; male and female created he them.
Genesis 2:24 Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh.
In the creation of man, we have male, and female. The male leaves his father and mother to cleave to a female who becomes his wife and they become one flesh. Marriage therefore is a union of the male man (husband) and the female man (wife) or woman. Hence anything that veers outside this cannot be a godly home.
Paul also in his epistle to the Ephesians makes reference to Genesis 2:24 in explaining marriage and the conduct of the wife and the husband in marriage.
Ephesians 5:22
Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord.
Vs 23 For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church: and he is the saviour of the body.
Vs 24 Therefore as the church is subject unto Christ, so let the wives be to their own husbands in every thing.
Vs 25 Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it;
Vs 26 That he might sanctify and cleanse it with the washing of water by the word,
Vs 27 That he might present it to himself a glorious church, not having spot, or wrinkle, or any such thing; but that it should be holy and without blemish.
Vs 28 So ought men to love their wives as their own bodies. He that loveth his wife loveth himself.
Vs 29 For no man ever yet hated his own flesh; but nourisheth and cherisheth it, even as the Lord the church:
Vs 30 For we are members of his body, of his flesh, and of his bones.
Vs 31 For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother, and shall be joined unto his wife, and they two shall be one flesh.
Vs 32 This is a great mystery: but I speak concerning Christ and the church.
Paul’s explanation of Genesis 2:24 therefore is concerning Christ and the church. Paul however uses this union of Christ and his Church (his body) and demonstration of his love for his body to teach the husband and wife their responsibilities in the marital institution. The husband-wife relationship explained in Genesis 2:24 therefore is to mirror Christ and the church.
Hence the godly home will be such as mirrors the union and relationship between Christ and the church.
*Key Note:* Marriage which lays the foundation for a godly home is between a male and female and their union and conduct is to mirror the union and relationship between Christ and the Church.