10/08/2026
Today’s sermon – 9th August 2026, is titled:
A Good Friend
A good friend will tell you where the best coffee shop is in town. A good friend will tell you about a meat special that they found. A good friend will tell you if something is sticking out of your clothes that shouldn’t be.
Are you a good friend? Would the people you know call you a good friend? Would God call you a good friend?
How does God define a good friend?
I suppose the first thing you need to have to be called a friend by people, is some people you call friends and look at what the bible tells us that we have to do for this to happen: Proverbs 11:30 The seeds of good deeds become a tree of life; a wise person wins friends. (NLT)
To win anything takes hard work – a race, an award, a woman’s hand… Friends also take some effort to win (and to keep). A wise person wins friends by blessing them with good deeds. But why does God say that it is wise or even necessary to have friends?
We are created by the Lord to be social beings, and we are made to need people around us to meet our need for belonging.
But I believe there is a much more important reason for being friendly and connecting with the people around us – God calls us to build bridges with the folk we meet so that they can meet Jesus like we have.
John 1:40-42 Andrew, Simon Peter's brother, was one of these men who heard what John said and then followed Jesus. Andrew went to find his brother, Simon, and told him, "We have found the Messiah" (which means "Christ"). Then Andrew brought Simon to meet Jesus. Looking intently at Simon, Jesus said, "Your name is Simon, son of John - but you will be called Cephas" (which means "Peter"). (NLT)
Andrew was a Godly friend to his brother and brought him to meet Jesus, so that Jesus could change Peter’s life for the better.
How can You and I be the friends that God wants us to be?
a) Take an interest in people: Philippians 2:4 Don't look out only for your own interests, but take an interest in others, too. (NLT)
Greet them, remember their name, be quiet and listen to their stories and show them that they have value.
b) Find some common ground: 1 Corinthians 9:19-22 Even though I am a free man with no master, I have become a slave to all people to bring many to Christ. When I was with the Jews, I lived like a Jew to bring the Jews to Christ. When I was with those who follow the Jewish law, I too lived under that law. Even though I am not subject to the law, I did this so I could bring to Christ those who are under the law. When I am with the Gentiles who do not follow the Jewish law, I too live apart from that law so I can bring them to Christ. But I do not ignore the law of God; I obey the law of Christ. When I am with those who are weak, I share their weakness, for I want to bring the weak to Christ. Yes, I try to find common ground with everyone, doing everything I can to save some. (NLT)
Paul put in the effort to connect with all the different people he came across – not just the people who looked, thought and sounded like him. Learn how to greet them, respect their culture and try and make them comfortable.
c) Help them with their burdens: Galatians 6:2-3 Share each other's burdens, and in this way obey the law of Christ. If you think you are too important to help someone, you are only fooling yourself. You are not that important. (NLT) This is the complete opposite of: “Not my circus, not my monkey!” A giver is far more attractive than a taker. How do your “friends” see you?
d) Do good to whoever you can: Galatians 6:10 Therefore, whenever we have the opportunity, we should do good to everyone - especially to those in the family of faith. (NLT) This earns us the right to invite them to meet Jesus.
Our challenge today is to wisely cultivate our friendships – not just with the people we have lots in common with, but with every person the Lord brings across our path – cashiers, waiters, security guards, other motorists at a stop street, teachers, maids, gardeners, people you walk past, work with or buy something from.
Everyone is precious in God’s sight!
Remember the story that Jesus told us about the Good Samaritan. A man was mugged and left lying on the road half dead. A priest and a Levite walked past and ignored him., but a Samaritan stopped and helped him generously.
If the mugged man was a person far from God and the Samaritan was a Christian, how do you think the injured man would feel about Jesus after that experience?
How do you think the injured man would feel about Jesus if the priest and the Levite were the Christians?
Daniel 12:3 Those who are wise will shine as bright as the sky, and those who lead many to righteousness will shine like the stars forever. (NLT)
Who is the Lord challenging you to do what it takes to win as a friend so that you can invite them to meet Jesus?
Thank you for reading this message today.