09/08/2026
09 August, 2026
SUNDAY 10TH OF MATTHEW
(1 Cor. 4:9-16)
The Spiritual Father
Dear brothers and sisters,
The image that the world had formed for the Apostles and preachers of the Gospel,
is described by the apostle Paul, addressing the Corinthians, in today's apostolic
narrative. For the world, they were ready to die and foolish, worthy of irony and
humiliation, weak and lowly, persecuted and despised. These were decorations that
were awarded to those who, disregarding their personal image, comfort and
self-interest, gave themselves entirely to the work of evangelizing souls, aware that
they were destined to sacrifice themselves for the love of Christ. This image
characterizes the honest and dedicated workers of the Gospel, in all ages, those
who engage in the work of missionary work and spiritual guidance of people, often
becoming the target of the powers of the world.
Then, Paul, bearing the marks of worldly contempt, draws attention to his spiritual
children, so that they may avoid those who define themselves as spiritual fathers and
educators. He was their spiritual Father, because he had regenerated them through
the Gospel of Jesus Christ.
The characteristics of the genuine Spiritual Father
We will refer to the sacred and pivotal figure of the Spiritual Father for our spiritual
life below, after presenting the characteristics that make genuine and authentic the
one who undertakes the very important work of spiritual fatherhood within the
Church. Basil the Great teaches that the Spiritual Father must be “qualified to guide
those who walk towards God, full of virtues, his love for God being testified to by his
own works, and he must know the Divine Scriptures. He should be undistracted in
his spiritual work, unsparing, free from unnecessary cares, quiet, beloved of God,
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loving to be poor, not angry, not resentful, capable of building up his spiritual
children, not vain, proud and changeable. He should not be pleased with flattery and
prefer nothing except God.”
The work of the spiritual Father is the work of a safe and experienced guide in the
spiritual life, as the paths of this life are many and complex. We cannot walk alone in
the spiritual life, as we have neither the experience nor the knowledge of the life
according to Christ, with the result that the danger of falling and loss is visible. The
spiritual Father is the living presence of Christ, the infallible spiritual guide who works
for our rebirth, the experienced introspector who can see within us and contribute to
the purity and whitening of our soul. For this reason, it is very important to have a
spiritual Father and guide, so that we can safely experience the life of Christ within
the Church. Let us form relationships of healthy contact and communication with
him, avoiding harmful and destructive personality cults. The role of the spiritual
Father is not to keep us connected to him, but to Christ, who is the basic and pivotal
factor in our spiritual relationship.
“In reality,” says the blessed Metropolitan of Diocletia Kallistos, “the (spiritual)
relationship is not two-sided, but triangular, because, beyond the Elder and his
disciple, there is also a third member, God. The Lord tells us that we should not call
anyone “father,” because we have only one father, the one in heaven. The Elder is
not an infallible judge or an appellate court, but a fellow servant of the living God. He
is not a dictator, but a guide and companion on the journey. The only true “spiritual
guide,” in the full sense of the word, is the Holy Spirit.”
Ecclesiastical life and safe progress on the path of salvation cannot exist without the
presence of the spiritual Father in our lives. Let us seek him and trust him. He is the
only one who can keep our relationship and communion with God alive. AMEN!