26/12/2023
Bear with one another!
by Rev. Dr Andrew Lamont-Turner
“Therefore, as the elect of God, holy and beloved, put on tender mercies, kindness, humility, meekness, longsuffering; bearing with one another, and forgiving one another, if anyone has a complaint against another; even as Christ forgave you, so you also must do. But above all these things put on love, which is the bond of perfection.”
Colossians 3:12-14
The Apostle Paul was a prolific writer of the New Testament, and he certainly knew that churches did not comprise the buildings in which people met but were made up of those within the building, united in Jesus Christ. Our text for today is a blueprint for nurturing a loving and harmonious family life, whether in our personal or church family.
We are encouraged to develop virtues that improve our relationships within the family: compassion, kindness, humility, meekness, and patience. These qualities bind family members together, uniting them to form a beautiful, rich, vibrant tapestry of life, promoting love and understanding. Unfortunately, disagreement and conflict do happen. Paul handles this by encouraging us to bear with one another and to forgive. Forgiveness underscores family relationships, just like the grace with which God forgives us.
Love is not simply an emotion but a conscious choice to put others before ourselves. Love is the glue that holds the family together in perfect harmony. The result is a solid foundation for physical and emotional growth and fulfilment in a difficult-to-live-in world.
Prayer
Heavenly Father, thank You for the gift of family. May our home be a place of compassion, kindness, humility, meekness, and patience. Please grant us the strength to forgive one another as You have forgiven us, and may love unite us in perfect harmony.
Amen