26/04/2022
MY PERSONAL OPINION
TOPIC: I AM A CATHOLIC PRIEST AND SHE SAID, "THANK YOU FATHER.".
When I went to renew my drivers license yesterday, the woman there gave me a form to fill. She was silently gazing at the form as I filled it, until I got to the 'date of birth.' When I filled my accurate date of birth,' she looked amazed and exclaimed, "sir, is that your true date of birth or are using it just for official purposes?" I said "no; that's my actual date of birth." She said, "impossible; you look years older than this your real age. You are my junior, but just take a look at yourself and myself." I refused to be dragged into that discussion, but she persisted, "sir, is your wife or family troubling you?" I said "no." "Are you passing through difficult moments?" She asked, "you look old and burdened..." I said, "yes; I am burdened with the burden of souls; as I speak to you, I am worried about a family that lost their parents; I am troubled because I have to look for funds to pay the fees of so many orphaned children in my school. I have sermons to write and there are souls that I feed daily on Facebook. I have no wife, no child, no house, but I bear the burdens of families and the society. Madam, I am a Catholic priest and I look older because I face things I don't discuss with anyone but my God." She turned and said, "Thank you Father."
See, some might feel that the life of a priest is flowery, sweet and without burdens, afterall, "he is childless and wife-less." Some have concluded that his car entails a life with no scars. Some sadly said that the priest is exempt from the distractions, frustrations and troubles of life because he is not married. Some have desired to become priests because of the aroma of the food emitting from the priest's kitchen. Some have said that the life of priest is stress-free. But I wish to say that the life of a priest is like that beautiful rose that has thorns all around it. Priesthood is beautiful, but it comes with it's thorns and burdens which so many persons don't see. Pray for your priest and don't prey on him with your tongue. See, the priest also cries; he faces temptations and trials; he has his pains, sorrows, groanings and weaknesses that he doesn't discuss. And as the shepherd, the searchlight of the evil ones are constantly focused on him. See, when a priest closes his door, all that is left for him is himself and his God; so if he is not anchored on God, his boat of life will begin to sink as chronic loneliness and temptations take their tolls on him. Pray for him and don't forget to tell him, "thank you Fr."
She said "thank you Fr." because she understood that the age of any Catholic priest you encounter is not an immunity to the burdens, trials, temptations, stress, hurdles and crosses he must carry. Your priest is wife-less, childless, but not purposeless and that is why he sometimes look older than his age. To be a Catholic priest is not a child's play. To detest life's greatest pleasures in order to take up the higher pleasures of serving God as his 'priest' is not by any one's power, but God's grace. Nobody is perfect, and that priest called to the order of Melchizedek is not excluded from that imperfection. Today, tell a Catholic priest, "thank you Fr."