09/09/2026
PERFECT CONTRITION - A PURE LOVE OF GOD
This morning I reflected on the meaning of contrition.
In Christian understanding, contrition is deep sorrow over sin, accompanied by genuine repentance and a firm resolve to turn away from it.
At the heart of contrition is the love of Christ, whose precious blood was shed on Calvary for the redemption of our sins.
Perfect contrition flows from a pure love for God. It says:
> “Lord, I want to change—not merely because I fear punishment, but because I love You. I do not want sin to grieve Your heart or damage my fellowship with You.”
True repentance changes both our attitude and our behaviour. It turns us away from self and makes us increasingly Christ-centred.
There is also what is traditionally called "imperfect contrition", or "attrition"—sorrow for sin motivated primarily by fear of punishment. Scripture tells us that “the fear of the LORD is the beginning of wisdom” (Proverbs 9:10). Jesus also reminds us not to fear those who can kill the body, but to fear God, who has authority over both body and soul (Matthew 10:28).
Holy fear may awaken us, but love should mature us.
So, this morning, ask yourself:
Am I turning from sin because I love God and do not want to grieve Him—or am I only concerned about punishment?
Fear may bring us to repentance, but love draws us into a deeper, Christ-centred relationship with God.