16/09/2021
WHAT I HAVE LEARNT IN MY 30YRS MARRAGE JOURNEY.
1.How you start determines how you will end.
2.The believe in supreme being sustained us.
3.What does for better and for worse meant to us.(For better and for worse meant, for better and for worse)
4.Is it possible not to cheat even once in a 30years of marriage.
5.We learnt to agree to disagree
6.We learnt not to take crucial decisions when we were most disappointed.
7.We applied principle of honesty and transparency
8.We never argued in front of people.
9.We never went to bed angry
10.We shared our resources with others
11.We believed in forgiveness
12.,We believed in marriage covenant
13.We did it for our children
14 .We did it for you
15.We believe in divine plan
16. We learnt to wait
17.We valued each other
18.We learnt not to compete but complemented each other.
19.We learnt to handle the in laws
well.
20.We enjoyed each other's company
21. We learnt to grow in love
22.We learnt to resolve in our hearts.
23.We had awaiting further light file
24.We agreed on how we are going to use our finances
25.We never use s*x to punish each other when we were angry.
26.When we agree on doing something, we were also prepared to suffer consequences together.
27.We believed God for provision
28.We learnt to sow a good seed for our marriage
29.We learnt to speak well about each other
30.We left what we could not change or handle in God's hand.