16/08/2025
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Many of us have grown up with the worldโs idea of marriage: โIf youโre in love, then you can marry.โ
But thatโs not in the Bible. The Bible never said, โmarry the one you love.โ
It says, โlove the one you marry.โ
Did you see the difference? God puts the responsibility on you to love after marriage โ not before. Love is not just an emotion you fall into. Love is a decision, a choice, and an instruction from God.
When you marry, God commands you: โHusbands, love your wivesโ and โWives, submit to your husbands.โ
This is why many today struggle to marry โ they are chasing after โMr. Rightโ or โMiss Perfect,โ waiting to โfall in loveโ before committing. Thatโs worldly thinking, not Bible wisdom.
No wonder some people are still single at 40+ โฆ still waiting to โfind the one.โ Meanwhile, God says, the one you marry, love him, love her. If you marry on the worldโs terms, youโll end up in the worldโs frustrations. But if you marry on Godโs terms, youโll live in Godโs blessings.
Understand this: marriage is not about physical appearance, complexion, height, profession, or ethnic group. Those are worldly parameters.
Marriage, in Godโs wisdom, is about covenant, responsibility, and love as a choice. When you embrace this truth, your perspective on marriage changes. Youโll stop chasing shadows and start living in the light of Godโs Word.