10/22/2026
*A Table Big Enough for Everyone*
Over the years, my understanding of the Kingdom of God has grown and changed. I hope it has moved closer to the way Jesus actually spoke about it and lived it. The image I keep coming back to is a table, a really big, wide-open table where there is a place for everyone. Not just a chair, but a place. Not just an invitation, but a welcome.
That difference matters more than we often admit. Invited and welcomed are not the same thing.
Think back to the junior high dance. Everybody got the invitation. The flyer went up on every locker. But some kids walked through those gym doors and knew in an instant that they didn't really belong. They found a spot along the wall and waited, hoping someone would ask them to dance. And if they worked up the courage to step onto the floor on their own, the looks told them everything. "This isn't your place."
I wonder how many people have walked into our churches and felt exactly that. We said, "All are welcome." We meant it, or thought we did. But an invitation without a real welcome can be one of the loneliest experiences there is.
When our kids were growing up, I loved watching "Mister Rogers' Neighborhood" with them. Fred Rogers understood welcome better than most preachers I know. In 1969, at a time when Black Americans were still being turned away from public swimming pools, Fred did something quietly radical on his show. It was a hot day in the neighborhood, and he was cooling his feet in a little plastic wading pool. Officer Clemmons, played by François Clemmons, a Black actor and singer, stopped by. Fred invited him to take off his shoes and join him. There they sat, two men, four bare feet in the same small pool of water. When they were done, Fred helped dry his friend's feet with his own towel.
He didn't give a speech. He didn't need to. Every child watching learned something about who belongs. François Clemmons later said that moment changed his life. And the scene carries an echo we shouldn't miss: a man kneeling with a towel, caring for the feet of his friend. We've seen that before, in an upper room.
That is what welcome looks like. Not just "come in," but "sit with me. There's room in the water for you." Fred ended so many episodes reminding children, "I like you just the way you are." That's not just good children's television. That's the gospel.
Empire Thinking
So why is real welcome so hard for us? I think we've fallen, often without realizing it, into what I'd call "empire thinking." Empire thinking is about power, control, and who's in and who's out. It reduces salvation to believing the right doctrines so we can get into heaven when we die. . That's a far cry from the Hebrew vision of shalom: wholeness, the healing of what's broken between us and God, between us and one another, and between us and all of creation.
Brian McLaren put this beautifully in the October 22, 2026 Daily Meditation from Richard Rohr's Center for Action and Contemplation. McLaren reflects on how his faith has changed since he started paying close attention to the historical Jesus of the Gospels. He notes that Jesus' central message wasn't a formula for getting to heaven. It was this: "The kingdom of God is at hand." And "at hand" means "here, now, within reach."
Then McLaren points out something I find stunning. The Greek word we translate as "kingdom," *basileia*, is the same word used for "empire." Jesus preached in a world dominated by Caesar's Rome, and he took the very vocabulary of empire and turned it upside down. As McLaren imagines it, Jesus is saying that Caesar's empire is just "a dirty little neighborhood within a much bigger kingdom." God's realm is larger, wider, and far more beautiful than anything Rome could imagine.
And then McLaren names the contrast plainly:
Empires kill. Jesus dies as a nonviolent witness against that violence.
Empires imprison. Jesus heals and sets people free.
Empires uproot people and force them from their homes. Jesus goes to people right where they are.
Empires build ladders of domination, with some people always on top of others. Jesus kneels down, takes a towel, and washes feet.
The tragedy, McLaren says, is that so many Christians have done the reverse. We've shrunk God into the image of a Roman emperor: a stern, distant ruler keeping score. As Lutherans, we have a name for this. Martin Luther called it a "theology of glory", our human tendency to look for God in power, success, and dominance. But Luther insisted that God is revealed in the "theology of the cross", in weakness, humility, and self-giving love. The God we meet in Jesus doesn't climb up. God comes down.
Yes, Jesus calls God "Father." But this is no Roman patriarch demanding obedience. This is the father in Luke 15 who sees his wayward son while he's still far off, runs to him, throws his arms around him, and throws a party. No lecture. No probation. Just welcome. That is grace. Pure, unearned, extravagant grace.
A Bigger Table, a Wider Circle
Saint Francis understood this kingdom in his bones. He walked away from wealth and status, the very trappings of empire, to embrace the poor and the l***r. And his welcome didn't stop with people. Francis sang of Brother Sun and Sister Moon, Brother Wind and Sister Water, even our Sister, Mother Earth. For Francis, the whole creation was family. Everything belonged.
That's the table I believe Jesus is setting. It's wide enough for the kid along the gym wall, for the neighbor who was told they didn't belong, for the immigrant family, for the one who's been wounded by the church. It's wide enough to include the earth itself, which groans and waits for healing too. Shalom is not just about my soul getting to heaven. It's about all things being made whole, here and now, because God's kingdom is at hand.
So here's the question I can't shake. If Jesus pointed beyond the small, frightened world of empire to something bigger and more beautiful, shouldn't we do the same?
Let's not just invite. Let's welcome. Let's pull up another chair, scoot over, make room. Let's take off our shoes, put our feet in the water, and say to whoever walks through the door: There's room here for you. You belong.