06/08/2026
Forward Day by Day
MONDAY, June 8, 2026
MELANIA THE ELDER, Monastic, 410
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Galatians 4:16. Have I now become your enemy by telling you the truth?
A few years ago, my husband and I wrote down our “Principles,” a set of values that we try to live by. We review them every few weeks, going down the list and discussing how we’ve lived up to—or fallen short of—these aspirations.
Principle #1 is “Be Truthful.” We strive to be truthful with each other, with others, and with ourselves. This is more than just being honest; it’s about caring enough to make an effort, to speak the truth, in love, even when it’s uncomfortable. Speaking the truth can be hard, and hearing the truth can be harder. I often have to work through a level of defensiveness before I can actually hear and digest feedback.
We usually review our Principles in the car. Something about that context works for us, maybe because it prevents us from jumping straight into problem-solving. No action is expected—only listening. Having this space to offer truthfulnesses to each other and to ourselves makes speaking them—and hearing them—a little easier.
MOVING FORWARD: How do you tell the truth with love? How do you react to being told an unpleasant truth?
PRAY for the Diocese of Accra (West Africa)
Psalm 56, Psalm 57, Psalm 58 * Psalm 64, Psalm 65 | Eccles. 7:1-14 | Gal. 4:12-20 | Matt. 15:21-28