08/30/2026
22nd Sunday of Ordinary Time
So years ago, I read a book that has had a profound impact on the way I see the world.
It was titled Adam’s Return by Fr. Richard Rohr.
The book looks at how societies and cultures assist their boys into becoming young men.
And how there are several universal truths that a society communicates to its boys before they take on the mantle of adulthood.
You are not that important.
Life is not about you.
Life is hard.
You are not in control.
You are going to die.
Not exactly the most uplifting of messages, but essential ones. Essential for helping a child to leave behind their childhood and embrace the truth of what it means to be an adult.
But Fr. Rohr goes on to say that in the United States in our contemporary era, we fail to share these truths with our young people.
There are no rituals. No ceremonies. No quests that ensure we get these lessons.
And so we have a society that lives in perpetual denial of all five of these truths.
We have become an immensely self-centered people.
Fixated on our own futures. Our own achievements. Our own success.
Convinced that it is our rights that must take precedence. Regardless of the consequence of our decisions on the lives of others.
Ignorant of the suffering right outside our doors. Or worse, celebrating the pain experienced by another.
We have failed to see that we have a purpose, a responsibility to the community that surrounds us. That we belong to each other.
We assume that if life is hard we are doing something wrong. That our technological prowess should ensure a level of comfort and ease that we believe is our birthright.
We have been fed the lie that we are self-made women and men. That we and we alone are the determiners of our own destiny.
And worst of all, we are a society terrified of death. And so we deny it. Refuse to talk about. Demand that grief be hidden away. And become deeply uncomfortable in the presence of those whose pain is too close to the surface.
And yet, all of these lies we tell ourselves. All of these falsehoods that we cling to as a society. They all completely fall apart at the foot of the cross.
The cross that we are each asked to take up this day.
For Jesus knew that any life of true discipleship would inherently be a life defined by the crosses we choose to carry.
Jesus knew that life was hard. And that each of us is going to be nailed to plenty of crosses throughout our life.
And we can approach those crosses kicking and screaming. Like our dear prophet Jeremiah, railing against the God who has duped us.
Or we can choose to carry them.
To take them upon our shoulders.
Knowing that the promise of our faith is not one of false assurance. We are never told the lie that there is no cross.
What we are told is that Christ is carrying the other side beside us. Walking each painful step by our side.
My friends, this weekend is a challenging reminder that our society and our faith are not always aligned.
For we are a people defined by the cross.
The cross that our society tries so very hard to deny exists.
And so we are given a choice.
Do we take up the crosses that our lives have given us?
Do we shoulder the daily hardships that come with our chosen lives?
The small disappointments. The stressors and lack of sleep. The arguments and conflicts.
Do we hoist upon our shoulders the failures, the violence, the brokenness of which our world is capable?
Do we gaze upon the cross precariously perched on another’s back and lay it across our own?
As they languish in our prisons. As they swelter in our detention centers cut off from their children in the next cell. As they writhe in pain in a hospital bed from a disease that we once contained. As they skip another meal to pay the rent.
Or do we try to flee before the cross’s shadow? Refusing to accept the yoke?
The choice is ours, my friends. It is always ours.
May we choose in imitation of the one who shouldered a cross for the sake of us all.
May God be Praised.