09/04/2026
Ponderings by Pastor Courtney,
This past weekend nearly 40 members of FCC gathered on the holy grounds of Camp Caroline for our annual All Church Retreat. This weekend has become such a highlight of the year for me for many reasons but in part because it is an opportunity to lead a diverse group of ages when so much of my work is either focused on one age group or another. This year we had people ranging from age 6 to age 80. We also had people who have been members of FCC for decades and those who joined just recently.
Our theme was ‘Practicing Joy.’ We talked about how joy is not just something we feel. Instead, it is a spiritual discipline that we must cultivate and practice. We explored the way scripture talks about joy and the things that it points to as sources of joy - namely, the created world around us and the people around us. We also talked about the things that can rob us of our joy like phones, media and other distractions. We put these ideas into practice as we created and noticed joy together. We learned through activities and games, we ate good food, we laughed, we built new relationships and deepened old friendships. And, as we did, I was reminded again and again of the power of doing things in community.
You see, when Brad and I sit down to plan these retreats we are hoping that what we have on paper will translate to real life. When we have ideas like “make a Where’s Waldo picture” or “play a game of telephone across camp property,” we have a vision for how they might go but there is also some doubt that the vision and reality won’t match up. In order for them to work the group has to be willing to bring them to life. They have to be willing to be vulnerable, to be a little uncomfortable or to maybe look a little silly. To be honest, without a group willing to share them and bring them to life, nothing we had planned would have been all that noteworthy. In fact, it probably would have been rather lame. Imagine how boring it would be to try to create a where’s waldo picture all alone? But together it became a creative, funny, engaging source of joy.
Reflecting on this, made me wonder how often we may miss out things because we aren’t willing to lean into the experience or to be vulnerable and open to new things or new people. We know that life is not meant to be lived alone. Jesus makes that clear in the way he approaches his ministry - calling friends to be in community with him along the way. We know that when we share them as part of a community our burdens are lighter and our joys are multiplied. In the same way, what we can accomplish, what we can create together is so much greater when we do it together. As Methodist minister Halford E. Luccock writes, “No one can whistle a symphony. It takes a whole orchestra to play it.”
As I celebrate a decade of sharing life with the beloved community at FCC, I am deeply grateful for the things we have been able to create together and the ways being a part of this community has lightened my burdens and multiplied my joy. As we embark on a new season with new worship and a renewed emphasis on shining our light, I hope that we can lean into the experience, that we can be vulnerable and open to new ways of doing life and ministry together. Who knows what we might create?!