06/29/2026
Did Mary Remain a Virgin, or Did She Have Other Children?
Imagine a conversation between two Christians.
One says:
"The Bible mentions Jesus' brothers and sisters. Doesn't that mean Mary had other children after Jesus?"
The other replies:
"But Catholics have always believed that Mary remained a virgin her entire life."
Both open their Bibles.
Both sincerely want the truth.
So, what does the Bible actually teach?
To answer this, we need to begin with a story from the Bible.
When the Angel Gabriel appeared to Mary, he announced that she would conceive and bear the Son of God.
Mary responded with a surprising question:
"How can this be, since I have no relations with a man?" (Luke 1:34)
After the angel explained God's plan, Mary freely accepted His will.
Jesus was conceived by the power of the Holy Spirit, not through ordinary human relations.
The Church has always believed that this miraculous conception was the beginning of Mary's unique vocation as the Virgin Mother of God.
But did she remain a virgin afterward?
Let's find out.
First, The Catholic Church Teaches Mary's Perpetual Virginity.
From the earliest centuries, the Church has taught that Mary remained a virgin before, during, and after the birth of Jesus.
This belief is known as Mary's perpetual virginity.
It is not a medieval invention but one of the ancient teachings of Christianity.
Second, What About Jesus' "Brothers and Sisters"?
The Gospels mention the "brothers" and "sisters" of Jesus.
However, in the Jewish culture and languages of the Bible, the words translated as "brother" and "sister" were often used for close relatives such as cousins, nephews, nieces, or members of the same extended family.
Scripture itself gives examples where people called "brothers" are known to be other relatives rather than children of the same mother.
Third, Jesus Entrusted Mary to John.
As Jesus was dying on the Cross, He said to His mother:
"Woman, behold, your son."
Then He said to the beloved disciple:
"Behold, your mother." (John 19:26-27)
If Mary had other biological sons, Jewish custom would normally have expected one of them to care for her.
Instead, Jesus entrusted her to the Apostle John.
The Church has long seen this as consistent with Mary's perpetual virginity.
Fourth, Does Matthew 1:25 Mean Joseph and Mary Had Other Children?
Matthew says that Joseph "had no relations with her until she bore a son." (Matthew 1:25)
Some people think the word "until" means they later had marital relations.
However, in the Bible, the word "until" does not always imply that something changed afterward.
For example, 2 Samuel 6:23 says that Michal had no children until the day of her death. Obviously, she did not have children after her death.
Therefore, Matthew 1:25 does not prove that Mary had other children.
Fifth, Why Does This Matter?
The Church does not teach Mary's perpetual virginity to diminish marriage or family life.
Rather, it points to Mary's unique mission in salvation history.
She was completely dedicated to God's plan and became the Mother of the Son of God in a singular and extraordinary way.
Her perpetual virginity highlights the uniqueness of Christ's birth and Mary's total consecration to God.
Finally, the Catholic Church teaches that Mary remained a virgin throughout her life. While the Bible mentions Jesus' "brothers and sisters," the Church understands these references as referring to close relatives, not other children born to Mary. This belief has been held by Christians from the earliest centuries and reflects Mary's unique role as the Mother of God.
In simple words, did Mary remain a virgin, or did she have other children? The Catholic Church teaches that Mary remained ever-virgin. The "brothers and sisters" mentioned in the Bible are understood as relatives or close kin, not children of Mary. Her perpetual virginity is a sign of her unique calling and complete dedication to God's plan.
Now you know.
SOURCES
Sacred Scripture (Catholic Translation):
Luke 1:26-38, Matthew 1:18-25, Mark 6:3, John 19:25-27, Genesis 13:8, 2 Samuel 6:23
Catechism of the Catholic Church §§499-507
Lumen Gentium §§52-69
© Catholic Dailies
Be Prayerful. Be Inspired.