09/07/2026
“If it is meant for you, it will cross oceans, distances, and doubts to reach you.”
But as Christians, we should remember:
What is truly from God will never require you to compromise God’s standards.
A relationship is not proven by how far someone is willing to travel, how strongly they pursue you, or how much you feel for each other. It is proven by character, faithfulness, purity, respect, and a shared desire to follow God.
📖 “Seek ye first the kingdom of God, and his righteousness.” — Matthew 6:33
God should never be placed second just because someone has entered your life.
According to the counsel of Ellen G. White, courtship and marriage should be approached prayerfully and carefully, considering whether the relationship will strengthen one’s character and spiritual life rather than weaken it.
Don’t ask only, “Will this person cross oceans to reach me?”
Ask instead:
“Will this person walk with me toward God?”
The right person will not only pursue your heart—they will respect your convictions, honor your purity, encourage your relationship with God, and help you become more faithful to Christ.
Sometimes God’s answer is “wait.”
Sometimes it is “no.”
And sometimes He is preparing something better than what you are trying to hold onto.
If it is truly God’s will, you will not have to lose God to keep it.
Choose God first. Let Him decide who stays.