I choose you

05/29/2026

I Choose You! ❤️

It’s the weekend, y’all! Time for family time, church time, and sweet Jesus time.

Love on your people BIG this weekend. Laugh a little louder, hug a little longer, pray together, & make those small moments count.

The dishes can wait… those memories can’t.

Don’t take the quick hugs, the coffee talks, the car rides, or the quiet moments for granted. Those little things become the big things.

So slow down, be present, thank God for the gift of family, & keep choosing each other every single day.

As for me and my house, we will serve the Lord.
Joshua 24:15

05/28/2026

Happy Thursday!!

Did you pray with your spouse today?
Did you remind yourself that even with those dirty dishes in the sink & those nasty socks on the floor… you are still choosing them today?

Marriage isn’t built only on the big romantic moments.
Sometimes it’s built while picking up socks, folding laundry, paying bills, & choosing grace when your eye starts twitching a little.

Today, take a moment to thank God for the gift of choice.
Thank Him for walking with you through every decision, every season, every lesson, & every blessing.

He has been faithful through it all.

Choose for yourselves this day whom you will serve… but as for me & my house, we will serve the Lord.
Joshua 24:15

Also, family… I Choose You has some BIG things coming up!
We are excited about what God is doing, & we ask that you keep us lifted up before the Lord in prayer as we continue encouraging couples &families to choose love, covenant, & Christ daily.

Keep choosing each other.
Keep choosing grace.
Keep choosing God.

05/27/2026

Real talk about CHOICE for a minute…

We will spend 2 hours picking out an outfit.
We’ll walk every aisle in Target or TJMaxx looking for the PERFECT gift.
Ladies, ya all know I walk the Lords store (Hobby Lobby) for hours if my babe isnt with me
We will research skin care like we’re preparing a doctoral thesis. The right skin care is new for me. I was a soap & water girl but now I am at Ulta all confused.

Is it hydrating?
Does it reduce fine lines?
What are the reviews?
What’s the ingredient list?
I usually just asking my daughter for the answer lol

But somehow… some of us make QUICK, rash decisions when it comes to the person we connect our heart, spirit, mind, & future to.

Choice matters.
Why?
Because choices build lives.

God talks about choice all throughout His Word. He gave us free will because love & covenant were always meant to be intentional, not accidental.

I have set before you life and death, blessing & cursing: therefore choose life… Deut. 30:19

And can we talk about equally yoked for a second? God wasn’t trying to ruin anyone’s fun. He was protecting purpose, peace, & partnership.

“he prudent give thought to their steps. Proverbs 14:15
Ummm... that’ll preach a little.

Choosing a person is deeper than chemistry.
It’s deeper than butterflies.
It’s deeper than “they make me laugh.”

Can they pray with you?
Can they grow with you?
Can they walk through hard seasons with integrity & grace?
Can they help lead you closer to God instead of farther away?

Listen… nobody chooses perfectly every single time. In the vein of transparency, I will tell you, I didn't. I did not listen or align my heart after God. I am so thankful for the God of 2nd chances...

Even in that, God absolutely calls us to choose wisely.

So yes, moisturize the skin. Buy the cute outfit. Research the serum.
But also pray over your relationships with that SAME energy.

Because the right choice can change generations.
Your yes today is shaping your children, your children's children & your children's children's children!

05/26/2026

God never created marriage to be a constant tug-of-war.

His design for covenant marriage was always meant to be partnership, peace, growth, laughter, grace & choosing each other daily even on the imperfect, rough days.

That’s why being *equally yoked* matters.
That's not a popular term or even one we pay much attention to these days...
It’s not about being identical people or agreeing on every little thing.
It means you’re both pulling in the same direction spiritually. Aligning your hearts with the heart of God.

When two people are chasing God together, honoring Him together, praying together, & building with the same foundation…
the relationship flows differently.
Stronger.
Healthier.

More intentional. Like a beautiful melody!

Because let’s be honest… if one person is fighting for purpose while the other is fighting for the world, eventually somebody gets exhausted. That is a set up for an implosion, a breakdown of a shaky foundation

God’s plan for covenant marriage is not perfection.

It’s unity. Unity in Him!
Two people choosing commitment over convenience!
God over culture!

Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers.
2 Cor6:14

Pray intentionally.
Listen to God.
Love deeply.
Choose Wisely
Live fully

05/26/2026

Itook a little time over the last week to unplug (not completely, but more intentionally) soak in family time, & welcome the sweetest new blessing into our family… our 3rd grandbaby ...a beautiful baby girl

Sometimes we have to step back from the noise, limit social media, & pour back into what God has placed right in front of us...our marriage, our family, our home, & the people we love most.

We are ready & excited to jump back in... encouraging one another to intentionally choose our spouse every single day. Through busy schedules, distractions, hard seasons, laughter, growth, & all the amazing moments in between… we still choose them.

Above all, love each other deeply…
1 Peter 4:8

So as we head into this new week:
Choose grace.
Choose patience...(I know, thats a hard one)
Choose joy.
Choose connection.
Choose your spouse.

05/20/2026

Couples, pause & think about this…

Did you learn your spouse before you chose your spouse?

What did you intentionally invest & deposit into your relationship so it could grow strong, healthy, & lasting?

Was it time?
Patience?
Prayer?
Honest conversations?

Let us consider how we may spur one another on toward love & good deeds
Heb 10:24

Comment below, what helped you build the foundation you stand on today?

05/18/2026

05/18/2026

Happy Monday

Before the emails.
Before the errands.
Before the noise of the week…

Pause.
Pray.
Choose.

Choose the joy of the Lord.
Choose peace over pressure.
Choose your spouse on purpose.

This is the day the Lord has made; we will rejoice & be glad in it
Psalm 118:24

Joy is not something we stumble into… it’s something we step into. One of the best ways to step into joy today is by turning to your spouse &saying,
I choose you

Kick the week off by:
Praying together
Smiling at each other on purpose
Speaking life over your home
Choosing love before anything else

Joy in the Lord + choosing your spouse = a beautiful kind of Monday.

Drop a ❤️ if you’re starting this week with prayer & choosing your person!

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05/14/2026

Psalm 106:45 says, “And He remembered His covenant for their sake, & relented according to the abundance of His steadfast love.”

There is something so sacred about a love that remembers. A love that doesn’t discard, doesn’t walk away when it gets hard, but leans into covenant.

That’s the heart of “I choose you.”

Not just on the easy days, but in the tension, in the silence, in the becoming.
Just like God remembers His covenant with us, we are called to reflect that same steadfast love in our marriages... choosing grace, choosing mercy, choosing each other again & again.

Covenant love is not built on feelings that fade, but on a commitment that remembers.

So today, choose to remember why you said yes.
Choose to love like covenant.
Choose to stay rooted in steadfast love.

Realeal love doesn’t just feel...it remembers.

05/13/2026

Let’s be clear… love is not just a feeling. It’s a daily decision.

“I choose you” isn’t cute words—it’s covenant.

“Therefore what God has joined together, let no one separate.” — Mark 10:9

Every day, I wake up & make a choice… not out of obligation, but out of devotion. To love deeper.
To show up softer.
To stay intentional.
To choose my babe again.

Because covenant love doesn’t drift...it decides.

“Place me like a seal over your heart… for love is as strong as death.”
Song of Solomon 8:6

This space, I Choose You, is for couples who are unashamed about building something real...something rooted in Christ, covered in grace, & strong enough to last.

We talk love, laughter, passion, healing, & the daily grind of choosing each other when it’s easy… & when it’s not.

Yes...we keep it real here. Because strong marriages aren’t perfect… they’re chosen.

So here’s your invitation:
Share this page with your person. With your married friends. With the couples you believe in.

Don't just scroll...participate.

Drop a comment:
What’s one way you’re choosing your spouse on purpose today?

Because love that lasts isn’t accidental…

It’s chosen...
Over & over again.

“I am my beloved’s & my beloved is mine.”
Song of Solomon 6:3