05/09/2022
May 8, 2022, Sermon: "An Excellent Mother?" Proverbs 31: 10-31
Proverb thirty-one, defines what a virtuous, or excellent woman is: Just recently a person nominated to be a Supreme Court judge, was asked to define a woman, and the nominee is a woman; but she could not define a woman.
But The Lord saw to it that we can know and understand what a virtuous woman is and does. She loves her husband, nourishes her family and showers them with kindness, then shows her true virtues to others (cf Vs 10; 29-31).
Now neither history or archeology has discovered who king Lemuel was, or might be. But I believe he was Salomon writing in his pen name. He, I believe from the Holy Spirit's leading finally learned what true virtue was in women.
Bathsheba was Salomon's mother, but I do not believe she was the wise councilor, that Solomon needed. If we read the first nine verses, it tells us Solomon's 'Mother,' taught him: but Solomon's mother was the Lord Spirit.
His mother said, do not give your strength to women, nor drink wine, but learn to speak for those unable to speak, and judge righteously (cf Vs 11-13, 15, 17, 19, 21-22, 25 &27). When Solomon learned to be virtuous himself he would be lees with find a virtuous woman to love and trust; and she would bring him much joy and peace. For he would learn that he was blessed by the Lord (cf Vs 14, 16, 18, 24).
For the virtuous wife makes her home the center of her ministry, gives generously to the poor (V 20), instructs to her children and household staff with true kindness (V 26): then you and your children shall enjoy life (Vv 11-12, 23, 28-29).
The virtuous wife will set a high and lofty standard, that only the Lord can give to wife and mother: for she is ideal! The truth is, the Lord does not expect any woman to look exactly like this one, in every respect! But, when a woman allows His Spirit to fill her to overflowing she will grow towards this ideal!
I. The Virtuous Woman
Grasp, what the Lord has said in this proverb, a worthy woman, will become an excellent wife, for she is a gift from the Lord!
a. "The king's own soul declared to him, "She is worth more than rubies." They were prized more than diamonds, gold or silver, because of their reddish purple color, the color of royalty; and she would be his crown" (cf Pr 1:2:4). The Lord, first seeks men and women that love discipline, and knowledge (cf Pr 12:1).
b. If we look at Ruth we will find that she was a worthy women. This is the first truth every man of moral character will learn (cf Ruth 2:11). 'Worthy' speaks to one's character, both morally and physically: this trait come from God's Spirit.
c. Namoi, Ruths mother-in-law said, 'seek one that is blessed by the Lord, whose kindness has not forsaken the living or the dead' (cf Ruth 2:20). She was counseling Ruth, to seek kindness, as a man's base character. Therefore, if she sought kindness, she would know the man's disposition, kindness.
d. Kindness is reveled from within, to all that clearly see. A loving and kind woman only responds to kindness, and submits to the God's law of 'Love.'
e. "The man that finds a [virtuous] wife finds a blessing from the Lord" (cf Pr 18:22). This is also true for women, each woman needs to only consider 'worthy' men. Then, Her husband's heart will trust her, all the days of their life" (cf Pr 31:11,12).
II. The Virtuous Wife
A virtuous wife works hard with all her skill, at the task of making her home, a place of enjoyment, as she is fulfilled in her tasks.
a. 'She arises early' (V 15), this describes her concern for her family and those that serve her, out of her kindness.
b. She dresses herself with [spiritual) strength, making herself strong, for the ministry the Lord has given her.
c. She uses her spiritual and moral strength in service to her family. She doe not work for worldly gain: for she opens her hands to the poor, and needy (V 20)!
d. She meditates on what she can do to increase the economy of the family; and buys a field to plant and grow produce, to sell. But a shameful wife brings ruin to her husband.
e. She makes clothing for her family, and extra to sell. And her husband is publicly known through his kind industrious, excellent wife.
III. The Virtuous Mother
Her witness, is her living testimony, of supporting her husband, children, servants, and neighbors to the public, and all see it.
a. The virtuous wife makes the most out of the "cottage industry," of growing produce, sewing good quality clothing and accessories. She teaches her children by living out virtue before them, as she shares with the poor and needy.
b. She dresses her family and herself, with fine quality clothing, because of her virtues, she receives spiritual strength and honor, for her children to know true value and true virtue.
c. She speaks wisdom, through kindness, to all. And seeks the best for her household, children and the needy. And stand and 'call her blessed: and her husband praises her' (cf V 28).
d. She knows charm and beauty are deceitful, and passing away; but she fear's the Lord [reverently worshipping, obeying, serving, and trusting Him with awe-filled respect], therefore, she shall be praised.
IV. Invitation
As a virtuous Wife follows Lord's guidance by living her faith, she is illuminated, and delivered from spiritual blindness [sin]. So, "He who has an ear, let him hear what the Spirit says to the churches. To the one who conquers [man's disposition] I will give some of the hidden mana, ..." (Rev 2:17)!
* 'Disposition,' is not attitude, but the principle of self governing, managing self, without God, it is sin: and defies God, His Word, and Spirit" and hates God's discipline; "Whoever loves instruction [discipline] loves knowledge, but he whoever hates correction is stupid" (Pr 12:1).