The Presbyterian Church of West Middlesex

The Presbyterian Church of West Middlesex Worship Sundays at 10:00 am

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08/28/2026

The Gift of Presence

“The gift of presence is a rare and beautiful gift. To come, undistracted, and be fully present, fully engaged with whoever we are with.” -John Eldredge

One of the greatest things we can be to those in our life is a non-anxious presence. Instead of mirroring the emotion of the loved one we are with, it can be calming and grounding to simply be a listening non-anxious presence for them.

In Judaism there is a beautiful practice called sitting shiva. If there is a death in the family, other members of the family will come for seven days and seven nights (the word “shiva” means “seven” in Hebrew) and sit in silence with whomever just lost their spouse/sibling/parent/friend.

Only the mourner can initiate conversation with his/her loved ones who have come to sit shiva for those seven days. Also, all the mirrors of the house are covered to show that this is a time not to focus on oneself, but to focus on grieving with the person who has lost their loved one. Lastly, those sitting shiva in the house will usually sit either on the floor or on low stools to show that they are “low in spirit” during this time of mourning.

This practice comes from the book of Job in the Old Testament. One of the most beautiful things Job’s friends ever did was also the simplest. After hearing about the unimaginable losses that had fallen upon him, Eliphaz, Bildad, and Zophar came to see him.

Scripture says, “Then they sat on the ground with him for seven days and seven nights. No one said a word to him, because they saw how great his suffering was” (Job 2:13). They sat beside their hurting friend. They didn't explain his suffering. They didn't offer clichés. For seven days, they refused to let Job suffer alone. They offered the gift of their quiet presence.

Sometimes love is just showing up. Perhaps there is someone in your life right now who doesn't need your answers. Maybe they have lost someone they love. Maybe their marriage is struggling. Maybe their child is hurting, or their future feels uncertain, or they are simply carrying a burden they haven't told many people about.

We sometimes stay away because we think, I wouldn't know what to say. But what if you don't need to know what to say? Go ahead and send that text. Make that phone call. Bring that meal. Sit in the hospital room. Pull up the chair. Give them the ministry of your presence.

Psalm 34:18 doesn't say that God watches the brokenhearted from a safe distance. It says, “The LORD is close to the brokenhearted.” It’s one of the most beautiful descriptions of God in all of Scripture. He comes close. He offers His presence in the midst of our pain.

You don't have to fix someone's pain to love them well. Sometimes you simply need to sit beside them—and by showing up, remind them that God has not left them alone. Offering your hand on their shoulder can sometimes be more powerful than any words.

Don’t underestimate the power of your non-anxious presence as a form of healing for those in your life. We might not sit shiva for seven days, but sitting beside someone even for a few minutes can be a profound encouragement.

The Lord our God is in our midst,
Pastor Mark

If you are coming to the open house tonight, please remember to come and see us. We are the first table soon as you walk...
08/27/2026

If you are coming to the open house tonight, please remember to come and see us. We are the first table soon as you walk in you can’t miss us. We are both so excited about a new school year and what all things are gonna happen and the fun we’re gonna have!

07/30/2026

WHY DOES JESUS PROMISE US REWARDS?

"And without faith it is impossible to please God, because anyone who comes to him must believe that he exists and that he rewards those who earnestly seek him." — Hebrews 11:6

Earlier today my wife appeared at my office door with a bottle of water. It was her simple way of saying, "I'm thinking about you."

Surprisingly, Jesus notices small acts of love like that. He says, "Truly I tell you, anyone who gives you a cup of water in my name...will certainly not lose their reward" (Mark 9:41). I couldn't help but wonder what reward my wife might receive simply for making sure I stayed hydrated today.

How seriously should we take Jesus' words? We commonly think about the judgment to come, yet we rarely think about Christ personally rewarding His people. And when we do, we often feel almost embarrassed by the idea, as though it were somehow wrong to anticipate receiving a reward from the hand of God.

Yet Jesus Himself speaks about rewards more than thirty times in the Gospels. Clearly, this is no minor theme. Our Lord delights in rewarding simple acts of faith, quiet obedience, and humble kindness done in His name.

The pure in heart are promised that they will "see God" (Matthew 5:8). Those who are persecuted for following Christ are told that their "reward in heaven is great" (Matthew 5:12). Jesus also says, "When you pray, go into your room, close the door and pray to your Father... Then your Father, who sees what is done in secret, will reward you" (Matthew 6:6).

What might that reward look like? History gives us a beautiful example.

In 1857 a businessman named Jeremiah Lanphier invited a few people to join him for a lunchtime prayer meeting in New York City. For the first thirty minutes, no one came. Finally, six men quietly gathered to pray. It would have been easy to conclude that the effort had failed, but Lanphier kept praying.

Within months, New York City was bowing its head in prayer by the thousands, and the humble beginning of six men showing up to pray became the spark for the great Prayer Revival of 1857. An estimated 20,000 people each week came to faith in Christ during 1857 and 1858, and historians estimate that by 1859 more than one million people had been converted across America.

That, my beloved church family, is what God can do through one seemingly insignificant act of faithful obedience.

Most of us dream of changing the world like Jeremiah Lanphier. Yet most of our lives are made up of ordinary conversations, unseen prayers, quiet acts of kindness, and simple faithfulness that almost no one notices. But Scripture reminds us, "Do not despise these small beginnings, for the Lord rejoices to see the work begin" (Zechariah 4:10).

So why does Jesus promise rewards?

Because believing His promises is itself an act of faith. Hebrews tells us that we must believe not only that God exists, but also that "he rewards those who earnestly seek him." Trusting that promise means trusting the goodness of His heart and the generosity of His character. He is a Father who delights in honoring the faithfulness of His children.

Of course, we seek the Giver more than His gifts. Our greatest reward will always be Christ Himself.

Yet we should never hesitate to believe every promise He has made. Let us faithfully offer our "cups of cold water," pray our quiet prayers, and serve Him in the unnoticed places of life, confident that not one act of love done in Jesus' name will ever be forgotten by the One who promises, "Your Father... will reward you."

Let us believe our Lord’s words about reward together,
Pastor Mark

CANCELLED!!! DUE TO THE AIR QUALITY! THE SAFETY OF THE VOLUNTEERS AND COMMUNITY ARE ALWAYS OUR FIRST CONCERN!!! PLEASE S...
07/12/2026

CANCELLED!!! DUE TO THE AIR QUALITY! THE SAFETY OF THE VOLUNTEERS AND COMMUNITY ARE ALWAYS OUR FIRST CONCERN!!! PLEASE SPREAD THE WORD!!!

Church family: I will be using the movie "Home Alone" this coming Sunday for those of you who might want to watch the fi...
06/23/2026

Church family: I will be using the movie "Home Alone" this coming Sunday for those of you who might want to watch the film again before this Sunday.

Home Alone you say?? Yes. Christian themes found in the film: 1) old man marley is clearly a Christ figure--and it is Marley alone who saves Kevin in the end, 2) the importance of family, 3) loneliness and overcoming it with the gift of family, 4) the importance of Christmas (church scene in film).

Our theme verse will be: "God sets the lonely in families" -Psalm 68:6.

Loneliness is a major problem in our society, and God has given us both our families and our spiritual church family as gifts to help us overcome loneliness in this world.

So, we will have a little Christmas in June this coming Sunday :)

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West Middlesex, PA
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Wednesday 9am - 4:30pm
Thursday 9am - 4:30pm
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