South Main Church of Christ, Weatherford, TX

South Main Church of Christ, Weatherford, TX "Bringing the Gospel to the hearts of Weatherford"

Hours of Services

SUNDAYS:
9:30 - Bible Classes
10:30 - Worship
5:00 - Small groups/worship

WEDNESDAYS:
7:00pm - Bible Classes

When Cancel Culture Enters Family What is “Cancel Culture”?  Publicly ‘canceling’ or calling out someone for words or ac...
05/30/2023

When Cancel Culture Enters Family

What is “Cancel Culture”?
Publicly ‘canceling’ or calling out someone for words or actions that you find offensive, disagree with, or just plain don’t like — is everywhere. It can be simple finger-pointing or a coordinated demand for retribution for alleged transgressions, urging others to join in and add their voice to hasten the severe penalties of social ostracization. It started as a means of social change, a way of speaking individual truths to positions of power. But where it was once focused on authority figures, public humiliation and shaming have become the ‘go-to’ means of voicing disapproval, real or imaginary, against anyone. It’s gone from social issues to personal ones, from celebrities to classmates to family. We have a big problem if this is how we’re teaching our kids to deal with problems or conflicts with one another. Put bluntly, cancel culture is just bullying with a cooler name. It promotes ostracization over education, condemnation over compassion, and is deaf to redemption and change.

Cancel Culture is Polarizing
Cancel culture has picked up political overtones as name-calling and labeling have become embedded in social discourse, sometimes from the very people we should be able to look up to. The more you cancel, the more you can dehumanize the other person. The less human they are, the less you feel compassion, empathy, or the need to listen to their point of view. It gives no room for change and growth over time, accepting responsibility and learning. No effort to understand the other side and no interest in helping them change. Sorry, Prodigal Son, you’re out of luck in cancel culture.

What CC does to “family”
At one point, CC was more directed to government or corporations, but now “family” is on the menu as well. Vote for the wrong candidate or party—and your out. Rebuke my bad behavior and I’m gone. Disagree about Covid or CRT and you are out of my life forever. CC looks right past the direct commands of God about relationship: respect for those older than you (Lev. 19:22) and honor your parents (Eph. 6:2-3) going straight to, “if I want your opinion, I’ll call you—otherwise, just shut up!”.

What Cancel Culture Teaches.
CC teaches by example that it’s completely acceptable to openly attack those we disagree with, find annoying, or dislike. Under the banner of “truth” or accountability, CC touts public shaming and bullying as acceptable behavior for navigating power differentials with no attention to values and purpose. Evidence is not required beyond personal opinion and the more embarrassing--the better. This is not the kind of model that makes for a healthy or productive society, church or the family. It is devoid of grace.

Biblical Considerations:
Galatians 6:1-5 .. Brothers and sisters, if someone is caught in a sin, you who live by the Spirit should restore that person gently. But watch yourselves, or you also may be tempted. Carry each other’s burdens, and in this way you will fulfill the law of Christ. If anyone thinks they are something when they are not, they deceive themselves. Each one should test their own actions. Then they can take pride in themselves alone, without comparing themselves to someone else, for each one should carry their own load.
Matthew 18:15 .. If your brother or sister sins, go and point out their fault, just between the two of you. If they listen to you, you have won them over.
Philippians 2:3-4 .. Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit. Rather, in humility value others above yourselves, not looking to your own interests but each of you to the interests of the others.
Romans 12:16-18 .. Live in harmony with one another. Do not be proud, but be willing to associate with people of low position. Do not be conceited. Do not repay anyone evil for evil. Be careful to do what is right in the eyes of everyone. If it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone.

A Prayer: May God bless and guide us as we draw near to Him through His holy Word and Spirit. May he keep us from being conformed to our misguided culture and may we speak and act in a way that radiates the grace and love of Jesus Christ--especially in our families. In the name of Jesus, Amen.

-Michael Lum, Minister

04/05/2023

Wednesday With Jesus
(For a full account of the events of this day, see Matthew 26:6–16, Mark 14:3–11, Luke 22:3–6.)
The past several days have been a rush of tension and anger for Jesus’s opponents—and of unflinching resolve for Jesus. Words have been his currency, and he’s spent piles of them. But on the Wednesday before his death, Jesus is still.
He is in the home of Simon the L***r, a man known by what’s wrong with him. During their meal together, Mary of Bethany—Lazarus’s sister (John 12:3)—comes to Jesus with an alabaster flask of perfume. She’s been saving this perfume, worth a year’s wages, for this exact occasion (John 12:7). She begins pouring it on Jesus’s head and feet, which requires breaking open its container (Mark 14:3). Like popping the cork on a $20,000 bottle of champagne, this was a deliberate act. She is offering Jesus everything she has. By giving her most valuable possession to him, she is expressing her knowledge that what he’s about to give of himself is for her.
What Mary does is beautiful, and Jesus wants everyone to know it. She is preparing him for burial. There is honor and kindness in her gesture. Jesus returns the honor by saying history will never forget her act of beauty. And we haven’t.

03/31/2023

THE POWER OF WORDS (by: Mark Batterson)

Lately, it feels like no matter what you say, it’s never enough and it’s always too much. Low levels of civility coupled with high levels of cynicism have created the perfect storm to leave us feeling like we’re running on empty and always irritated.

One revelation I’ve had about myself in this difficult season of our world is that I was using negative words more and more frequently. I was speaking negativity into existence and giving it power. By emphasizing how hard leadership was during that season, for instance, I was making it harder than it had to be! My words became a self-fulfilling prophecy that reinforced a vicious cycle of negativity.

The same thing happens when you complain about people behind their backs, which was a second revelation for me. Want to change that dy­namic? You flip the script by catching people doing things right, then bragging about them behind their backs!

Your words are Occam’s razor—simple words can solve seemingly impossible problems. Your words are Archimedes’s lever—small words can make a world of difference.

But the tongue is a two-edged sword. “The tongue,” said Solomon, “has the power of life and death” (Proverbs 18:21).

James, the half-brother of Jesus, said: “With the tongue we praise our Lord and Father, and with it we curse human beings, who have been made in God’s likeness. Out of the same mouth come praise and cursing. My brothers and sisters, this should not be” (James 3:9-10).

James likened the tongue to the rudder of a ship, which determines its direction (James 3:4).Your destiny, to a large degree, is a derivative of your words.

As Jesus said, “Out of the overflow of the heart, the mouth speaks” (Luke 6:45).

Our words have the power to bless or to curse, to heal or to hurt, to give life or to cause death.

Want to change your relationships? Change your words.

Want to change your attitude? Change your words.

Want to change your life? You guessed it! Change your words.

Lord, help me see opportunities today to use words to build others up, to speak positively, and to praise you. Help me catch myself before complaining or putting someone down. I want my words to bring life, not death. Amen.

03/07/2023

Hunter Ponder from HGC Handyman called to see if we might know anyone who needs a part-time job. He is looking for people to hire for his handyman business. If you know of anyone who might be interested, his phone number is 817-995-9798.

Some interesting points about the Jesus commercials...
03/07/2023

Some interesting points about the Jesus commercials...

He Gets Us is spending millions to talk about Jesus, yet the campaign is being criticized by secularists and Christians on the left and the right. Here’s what you should know about it.

ACTS 29 Ladies had a great time at the Valentine party!
02/10/2023

ACTS 29 Ladies had a great time at the Valentine party!

Acts 29 Christmas Party fun!!
12/02/2022

Acts 29 Christmas Party fun!!

What defines you?Jesus was defined by His relationship with His father, not by the reaction or approval of His peers (Jo...
11/18/2022

What defines you?
Jesus was defined by His relationship with His father, not by the reaction or approval of His peers (John 17:1-3).
His very presence repelled some and attracted many who were hungry for real life. We are often defined by "who we seek to please or impress". Your value was stamped by the Hand of God at your creation in the womb and restated in the blood that stained the cross of Christ. You are a CHILD OF THE KING!

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07/07/2022

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A potluck. A little church in the sticks. There were maybe 50 people at the covered-dish social. Attendees were all ages. All classes. They represented all creeds, income brackets and SEC football allegiances. The casserole dishes were steaming, aligned on red-and-white gingham tablecloths. The dese...

06/26/2022

BEWARE OF SCAMMERS
June is Elder Abuse Awareness month, an excellent time to brush up on the latest scams targeting older members. Up to five million older Americans are abused every year, and the annual loss by victims of financial abuse is estimated to be at least $36.5 billion.
People over 60 are often the targets of criminals because they are more financially secure, they may experience memory issues, and they tend to be more trusting.
The following is a review of ten popular scams against older individuals:
1. The Grandparent Scam:
The Grandparent Scam may be the most devious because it takes advantage of many older adults’ biggest vulnerability – the love of a grandchild, and the fear of putting them at risk. Scammers will place a call to an older person, saying something like: “Hi Grandma, do you know who this is?” When the unsuspecting grandparent guesses the name of the grandchild the scammer sounds most like, the scammer has established a fake identity without any effort or background research. Once the grandparent “correctly guesses” which grandchild is calling, the scammer will usually ask for money to solve some unexpected financial problem, such as overdue rent, payment for car repairs or even a hospital bill because the grandchild has been in an accident. The funds must be paid via Western Union, MoneyGram, or other similar method. The scammer will also beg the grandparent - “please don’t tell my parents, they would kill me.”
2. The Puppy Scam:
Seniors can be particularly vulnerable to pet scams, especially if they have suffered the loss of a loved one and are looking for a companion. Generally, using the internet, a scammer posts a picture of an adorable puppy that is available for an unbelievably low price. There’s usually a heart-breaking background story about why the cute puppy needs a new home ASAP. Once the older person makes contact with the seller (scammer), there will be a number of fees — such as payment of up‑front adoption fees, shipping costs, etc. — that must be paid via wire transfer or prepaid debit cards. Then, after those fees are paid, there are often additional fees and multiple delays — such as insurance costs, specialized veterinary care, quarantine costs, etc. In reality, there was never a puppy — and the victim’s money is gone.
3. The Tech Support Scam:
Tech support scams targeting older adults are on the rise. Scammers often pose as support or service representatives, offering to resolve issues related to a compromised email, financial account, virus on a computer, or even a software license renewal. These scams usually start with a phone call or a pop-up warning of a computer problem that gives a number to call. The scammers often claim to be Microsoft or Apple — they may even spoof caller ID to make it look like one of these companies really is calling. In another twist, they get people who actually do need computer help to call them by posting phony customer support numbers for well-known companies online. These scammers convince people to hand over remote access to their computer and then make a big show of “troubleshooting.” They may open system folders or run scans that seem to show evidence of a problem. Then they ask for money for supposed repairs and things like fake service contracts.
4. Online Romance Scams:
Romance scammers usually create fake profiles on dating websites and on social media sites. While they can be hard to spot, the tactics they use are pretty common, for example:
• They claim to be living or traveling outside the United States, which allows them to avoid meeting with victims in person.
• They quickly escalate the relationship by using lots of flattery, professing love and asking to move conversations off the dating service so they can communicate directly by text or email.
• They make plans to meet in person, but always come up with excuses not to meet.
• They claim to have a medical emergency or unexpected expense and ask for money. They also might ask for money to pay for a trip together or to come visit. They typically ask for money to be wired or to buy a gift card or cash reload card and provide them with the card number.
While the scammers are usually easy to spot, those being defrauded oftentimes do not take kindly to any suggestion that their new love is actually a scam. They remind you that it is their money and they can spend it however they like. While this is true, it doesn’t make watching your loved ones lose their life savings any easier.
5. “The Pigeon Drop”:
This scam can take on various scenarios. Generally, the scammer tells the potential victim (“the pigeon”) that they have found a large sum of money and are willing to split it if the victim will make a show of “good faith” by handing over cash to the scammer to hold while they are determining how to split the money. For example, this scam often occurs in a store parking lot, where the scammer approaches the selected victim, usually an older person, and claims that they have just found a bag, briefcase or envelope and asks whether it belongs to the victim. When they look inside the bag for identification they find what appears to be a large amount of cash with some indication that it comes from an illegal activity, such as gambling or drug money, so returning the money is impossible. The final step is the request that each of the people who “found” the money offer some kind of deposit of their own money to show good faith that they will split the money. Once the victim provides their “good faith” cash, the scammers deftly switch out the “found money” for a look-alike bag or envelope full of useless paper. The scammers are long gone with the victims “good faith” money before the victim determines that the “found money” has been switched.
6. Email/Phishing Scams:
In this scam, a senior receives email messages that appear to be from a legitimate company or financial institution, asking them to “update” or “verify” their personal information. In one of the variations of this scam an older member may receive an e-mail that appears to be from the IRS about a tax refund and requests personal information to receive the funds. As you know, the IRS never sends such e-mails.
7. Investment Scams:
Because many seniors find themselves planning for retirement, a number of investment scams have been targeting seniors as they are looking to safeguard their cash for their later years. From pyramid schemes like the one that made Bernie Madoff infamous to stories of a Nigerian prince looking for a partner to claim inheritance money, investment schemes have long been a successful way to take advantage of older people.
8. Homeowner‑Related Scams:
Scammers like to take advantage of the fact that many people above a certain age own their homes, a valuable asset that increases the potential dollar value of certain scams. A couple of home-related scams include:
A. A property tax scam where scammers send personalized letters to different properties apparently on behalf of the County Assessor’s Office. The letter, made to look official but displaying only public information, identifies the property’s assessed value and offers the homeowner, for a fee, to arrange for a reassessment of the property’s value and therefore the tax burden associated with it. The fee must be paid in advance, and after payment is made the victim never hears from the “Assessor’s Office” again.
B. With legitimate reverse mortgages on the rise, scammers are taking advantage of this new popularity. As opposed to official refinancing programs, however, unsecured reverse mortgages can lead property owners to lose their homes when the scammers offer money or a free house somewhere else in exchange for the title to the property.
9. Sweepstakes & Lottery Scams:
This simple scam is one with which most credit unions are familiar. In this one, scammers inform the older member that they have won a lottery or sweepstakes and must make some sort of payment, for example to cover the taxes, before they can collect the winnings. To lend credibility to the scam, seniors will often be sent a check, representing partial payment of the winnings, that they can deposit into their credit union account. Before the check has time to be rejected as fraudulent, the scammers will quickly collect money from the older member for the supposed fees or taxes on the prize. When the check bounces, the scammers are long gone and member is out all of the “tax and fee” money they paid the scammers.
10. Funeral Scams:
The FBI warns about two types of funeral-related fraud often used against seniors. In the first one, scammers read obituaries and call or attend the funeral service to take advantage of the grieving widow or widower. The scammer claims that the deceased had an outstanding debt with them, and will try to extort money from relatives to settle the fake debts. In another common scam, funeral directors will insist that an expensive burial casket is necessary even when performing a direct cremation. In reality, cremation can be accomplished with an inexpensive cardboard casket.
Always be on a lookout for any red flags that may indicate that you or your loved ones are being defrauded. Educate yourself on the latest scams, be wary of any suspicious activity and when appropriate, file a Suspicious Activity Report with FinCEN and notify your local Adult Protective Services agency.

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201 S Main Street
Weatherford, TX
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