09/04/2026
Good vs. Best
As parents and caregivers, sometimes we feel stuck between a rock and a hard place when it comes to our children’s extracurricular activities.
Things like sports, music and art lessons, drama club, etc., are a great way to help kids develop skills that help them become well-rounded adults. But the time they require can also be a drain on the life of a family.
So what are we to do?
Remember everything is a season. If your children have specific goals or interests they want to pursue, talk about them together. Decide, “This activity will make us busier, but for this season, it is worth it for ____ reason.”
Then, create a schedule that prioritizes intentional family discipleship moments even in the busyness.
Alternatively, perhaps you’ve just had a busy season and your family needs a break. In that case, decide together, “For this time, there will be no extracurricular activities.” Then work together to create a plan and set goals for what you want your family to get out of your extra time together.
Whatever you choose this season — extracurriculars or no — make sure you and your family have a specific reason for your choice. From all the good things you can do, pray together that God would show you what is best. When this season is over, take some time to review what worked and what didn’t and use that information to help you as you look ahead to what’s next.
Talk About This One Thing:
“What is your goal for this season and what do you believe God is teaching you?”
Continue the Conversation:
1. Together, memorize Proverbs 16:9: The heart of man plans his way, but the Lord establishes his steps.
2. Create a family calendar. Put all your potential activities and commitments on it. One by one, label the things that are “good” and the things that are “best.” Pray together that God would direct your family’s steps and show you the “good” things that need to be removed so you can do what is best for you this season.
See you next week!
The Child Discipleship Team