05/30/2026
True and False
Friends can have a huge impact on our lives, for good and ill. In fact, some research shows that friendships and peer pressure can sometimes have a greater influence on kids than even their parents. Scary, right? It doesn’t have to be.
Instead of jumping to worry, statistics like these should encourage us to have open, honest and encouraging conversations with our kids about the types of friends they have and teach them to have discernment in their relationships. The reality is that as they grow, we can’t be with them all the time, especially during the school day. But we can give them tools to help them tell the difference between true and false friends and know what to do when their peers are leading them astray. Here are a few questions you can teach them to use to evaluate:
Are my friends kind? Do they care about me and others?
Can I depend on my friends to be there for me when I’m going through a hard time?
Do I feel pressured to join in with things my friends are doing even when I know they’re wrong?
Do my friends model Christlike behavior?
Do the people I surround myself with make me want to be more like Christ and encourage me in my walk with Him?
Child discipleship isn’t just about teaching our kids “the right answers,” but also making wise decisions in every area of life that will help them draw closer to Christ and become more and more like Him every day. It’s not easy, but we can praise God that He’s with us every step of the way.
Talk About This One Thing:
“Who are the friends that mean the most to you and why?”
Continue the Conversation:
1. Together, memorize Proverbs 17:17: A friend loves at all times, and a brother is born for adversity.
2. Read to your kids about friendships in the Bible like David and Jonathan (1 Samuel 19:1–7; 20:1–42) and Job’s friends (the book of Job). Discuss the difference between these friends and the qualities to both look for and avoid in friendships.
See you next week!
The Child Discipleship Team