03/29/2022
10 teachable moments from me about the fallout of and (all comments and perspectives are welcome)
* When a man has an effeminate mindset and he is broken you see stuff like: you're smiling to the joke, then challenged by dominate female to prove that you are strong and not weak which then you over react and smack/violate an innocent man, then smurk like your proud and feeling validated, then you crying 5 min later, then dancing 2 hours later at the after party (your true energy)... I'm saying a man with a strong/healthy mindset would pick an energy and would have read that moment correctly Will Smith did not!
* There are rules of engagement when being gangster (which Will is not): If a gangster slaps a man open handed in his face, he has already thought about killing that man and is ready to do so… please don’t get this fake Hollywood experience mixed up with real life… it will not end with you dancing at the after party!
*You cannot change an effeminate mindset with acts of violence or acting gangster... You can only change your mindset by changing your mindset.
* Men and women should be aware of their attraction to toxic partners. It is toxic for anybody that wants to continually access your wealth and your benefits but is not satisfied with you emotionally, sexually, or spiritually... (read that again carefully)
*Any partner that is continually discontent with who they are and confused about where they want to go or grow is toxic! (not irredeemable but damn man Jada all over the damn place 50 years old continuous issues)
*It's about time that we say marriage ain't for everybody. Care and connection can be real and you both still need to stay at the stage that you're at or let it go.. (anything other than these see previous moment)
* A man has to be clear about what he wants and what he believes but he cannot let a woman lead him! Women get the luxury of being emotionally impulsive then apologizing men don't.
* Don't throw everything away for nobody when there is NOTHING to gain. A person's respect for you ain't worth all you've built. Will Smith will never get back what took him 30 years to build, he dispatched it in 30 seconds. Your past traumas will not absolve you of your consequences of your actions! Remember this! He will survive but not go back to the Will we knew! GONE
* You have to deal with your unresolved issues in a professional environment and with courage and maturity if not, your meltdown affects everything connected to you and it might get you locked up, someone you love hurt, you beat up, or killed! Big Facts
*This was not a foreign environment, obviously Jada wasn't being attacked or mistreated, maybe she was irritated or frustrated but this was not a man protecting his women, there was zero chivalry in this dishonorable act! You don't get to violate a man and demand he act a certain way (keep my wife name out your F'ing mouth) then start realizing your actions/BS then start blaming the devil? Nah son bring that A*% here boy!