05/05/2026
Sermon for May 3, 2026 Rev. Andrea Hutnak
The joke is that days with difficult scripture passages like "No one comes to the Father except through me" and ones like the doctrine of the Trinity are often offered to recent seminary grads who are eager and don't yet know better, or...let the deacon choose to preach on it, as they're likely to also volunteer to preach on Trinity Sunday because they are that kind of crazy, in the tradition of St. Stephen.
Stephen was a Hellenistic Greek-speaking Jew, and one of the first seven deacons of the Early Church. He coordinated a feeding ministry to Greek speaking widows and their children who the apostles had observed being overlooked. He had a role in liturgy and preached the good news of the Gospel. Acts says that Stephen "was full of grace and power and did great wonders and signs among the people."
Yet, wherever he went, the people all complained. Well, not all of them, the widows and children surely thanked him, but the leaders of the area synagogues falsely accused him of blasphemy and it wasn't even over a religious debate. After being arrested he gave a long speech on the history of God's covenant through the centuries, and called the religious leaders "stiff-knecked people, uncircumcised in heart and ears, forever opposing the Holy Spirit" and "the ones who received the law as ordained by angels, and yet you have not kept it.”
So, Steven was stoned to death, and Saul of Tarsus, who later became Saint Paul, held the coats for those who threw the stones. As we heard earlier, Stephen -- called the protomartyr for being the first martyr of the Early Church -- died echoing the words of our Savior, even praying that God forgive his executioners. Neither Stephen nor Paul met Jesus in person, but both were willing to give their lives as testimony to the Truth.
Right before saying the words we hear in today's gospel, Jesus had washed the disciples' feet, told them that he was leaving them, that one of them would betray him, and that Peter would deny him three times. Any of those by itself would be enough to trouble one's heart, and their collective heart. As he said goodbye to the disciples, Jesus kept bringing it to the heart of the matter - Jesus shows us the face of the Father. He was with God from the beginning. If they believe through Jesus, if they believe IN Jesus, then they already know God. God is already with them and loves them. God will never leave them.
The disciples seek the divine together; they pray together, serve together, learn from Jesus together and have seen his miracles. In his farewell discourse, Jesus tells the disciples in as many ways as possible that he is leaving but will also always be with them, and they were confused. Thomas and Philllip legit wanted to know where Jesus was going. If they were in our time they'd be asking Jesus for the address so they could be sure all the disciples had the route saved in Google Maps or Waze. Jesus says you already know the Way, because I am the Way.
The disciples heard Jesus's words from their own perspectives, individually and as a group. They were in the moment with Jesus in the upper room. We know the ending, but for the disciples they know nothing except that night and that Jesus said difficult things are about to go down.
Jesus, however, was thinking ahead to the future. He gave them this strong assurance because he knew they would soon be full of grief and sorrow. Jesus knew crucifixion is not the end, that resurrection and ascension are not the end, and that Pentecost even is still not the end but a beginning! For that night, though, what was needed was strength and assurance for the days ahead.
"No one comes to the Father except through me." I believe these words are intended to give comfort rather than a warning. This statement, taken out of context, extracted from its narrative setting, does wrong to the spirit of Jesus's farewell words to his disciples.
He didn't make this statement during the Sermon on the Mount, he didn't preach it to the crowds, or have the disciples memorize it to preach when Jesus sent them out in pairs, and Jesus didn't declare it from the steps of the Jerusalem temple in front of the Pharisees and Sadducees. He said it in the upper room with his beloved disciples after he washed their feet, shared a meal, and after he told them these things that would otherwise cause despair.
Do not let your hearts be troubled, Jesus said to them. You already know the way, you already know God because you know me. Jesus and the disciples were Jewish, and we should remember that our Jewish and Muslim brothers and sisters also seek the divine, faithfully living in joyful submission and obedience rooted in love of God, in faith and trust in God's Covenant, with commitment to active engagement and service to those in need, and commitment meeting God in prayer.
To say that Jesus meant the only way to know God is to be a follower of the Way is to do a disservice to his words. No one comes to the father except through me. Christians know the divine as Father because we know the Son who is one with the Father, who was with the Father from the beginning and would soon be returning to the Father.
Jesus calls on the disciples to believe, and reminds them IN WHOM they believe, and, as one of my favorite commentators put it: "...after applying the antiseptic of belief, he binds their wounded heart with a promise wrapped in belonging. He knows their troubled hearts need this anchor connecting Jesus and the father." (Chelsea Harmon)
Jesus speaks with no ambiguity, no story or parable to get them thinking. He gives a solid assurance and anchor to God's love through Jesus.
This is the whole of Jesus's mission, to make known the Father, to reveal who God is, and for us to believe so that we may have life, and have it abundantly. Last week he warned the disciples not to follow others in his absence, the thieves and strangers and bandits of this world, but to have faith in the Good Shepherd, to trust in Jesus who is the Way, the Truth, and the Life.
What troubles your heart? I find comfort in the words of Jesus and in the Psalms, the joyful ones and the laments. There's a scene in The Chosen, (which is historical fiction closely following the gospels, with thoughtful additions) where Peter's wife Eden is greatly troubled because something awful has happened, and for many reasons she hasn't been able to tell Peter about it, She's in distress, so Mary Magdalene takes her to the temple to talk with a rabbi. Eden explains what's been going on in her life and Mary Magdalene says to the rabbi that Eden needs something to make her happy.
The rabbi, seeing Eden's sorrow, thought deeply for a moment and said, no, she needs a lament. They spoke some more and he selected and read Psalm 77 which is a lament, both pouring out a broken heart to God, and trusting deeply in God's love and compassion. She took those words home in her heart...a first step toward healing.
Growing up Catholic I missed that class explaining how Jesus prayed the Psalms from the Cross. Once I finally made that connection, it hit hard, because I realized that it wasn't despair from the Cross but PRAYER. Lament for sure, agony, yes, but not despair. Jesus called out to God in prayer, using the ancient words of the Psalms. Matthew and Mark write of Jesus saying out loud, a line from Psalm 22: My God, My God Why have you forsaken me?" and Luke writes of today's Psalm 31, where Jesus prays "Into your hands I commend my spirit." He likely knew them by heart and he was able to pray those lines of hope and trust in God's goodness, even in pain, dying on the cross.
What does it mean to you to be called children of God?
Knowing one's true identity is transformative. Melba Pattillo Beals was a 17-year-old African American girl living in Little Rock AK when she and eight other students integrated Central High School in 1957. Segregationists, spurred on by the governor, defied the Supreme Court's ruling to integrate the school and attempted to block it. The students, known as the Little Rock Nine, experienced tremendous adversity in their work for inclusion and access to equal education. Melba Beale was motivated to persevere by her grandmother who said "we are...God's ideas [and] you must be the best of what God made you." Her grandmother gave her the gift of identity. She affirmed that as a young black woman, she was "God's idea."
The epistle reminds us that we are God's idea. That through Christ who is one with the father, who is the Way to relationship to God as Father, who calls us his children. God who loves us and wants abundant life for us, and for us to have an anchor for our souls in times of trouble... and a joy that nothing can take away. We too are God's precious stones, built upon that living cornerstone. Jesus assures us that in him we have the Way, the Truth and the Life. As children of God, followers of the Way, we can claim God's love and mercy for ourselves, and proclaim it to our hurting world, extending it to whomever we meet on the road.
Do we always believe everything everywhere all the time? If we're honest, probably not. Jesus asks us to take the leap of faith that he is the Way, and the way to the Father. We can pray as often as needed, that most honest prayer: "Lord, I believe. Help my unbelief." May we take that leap of faith together, and follow the way to abundant life now and everlasting life, trusting in God who seeks to bind our wounded hearts with a promise wrapped in belonging. Through Christ, our Lord. Amen.