09/28/2022
⢠John 11:35 â˘
Oftentimes, I think we tend to overlook this verse and just use it as a reminder that Jesus cried too. Yes, Jesus shared the tough emotions too, not just happy ones. However, we have to provide full context to really soak in the beauty of this verse. Mary, the woman who poured perfume on Jesusâs feet and washed them, her brother Lazarus was extremely sick. In the Bible, when they informed Jesus of this, they referred to Lazarus as âthe one you loveâ, which emphasizes the importance of this relationship to Jesus. Regardless of His love for His friend, Jesus stayed where He was for a couple more days. I mean, come on Jesus, your best friend is about to die. Lazarus ends up dying, but Jesus describes it as sleep because He knows heâs going to raise him from the dead (spoiler alert). Martha was reasonably upset that Jesus took so long because now her brother was dead. He promised that their brother would rise again. Now, Jesus sees Mary weeping, and He was extremely upset to see them so troubled. What then? Jesus wept. Thatâs right, the ugly kind of cry where tears stain your cheeks and the kind where I can only imagine the whaling that drew from His lips. Wait a minuteâŚif Jesus knew He was going to rise from the dead, why stop to cry? Why not rise Him from the dead immediately? Why let this happen to the âone he lovedâ? Now, I canât tell you for sure what was running through the mind of the Som of God, but I can tell you this. Jesus knew the best way to support these grieving sisters was to grieve with them. Even if He immediately healed Lazarus, imagine the heaviness they would still feel on their hearts trying to process that their brother died but was somehow now alive. That would be extremely jarring. Sometimes, the best thing you can do for someone who is grieving is to grieve with them. Sometimes, the best thing you can do is slow down and just be present for those who are mourning. Sometimes, you have to ugly cry, so others know itâs okay to cry. People pass away because itâs a harsh reality of this fallen world, but if we follow Jesus, we can have hope to âawake againâ and spend eternity in Heaven with a God who weeps because He loves us. đ