04/28/2026
Well, hello amazing caregivers! Most of you may know by now that my mother transitioned a month ago today. For 10 months, my sister and I were the primary caregivers, and it was tough, but our honor. I've had a month to adjust, readjust, and rest from lack of rest. As someone who helped others through grief and bereavement for 10 years, it must be said that sometimes nothing needs to be said; it is called the Ministry of Presence. Just be there when we call.
Most caregivers are overstimulated and hypersensitive; therefore, too much at one time is even more overwhelming. We are learning life a new way, and it will take a wise person to know what to do and when to do it. I'm at it again, caring for another loved one who is on a journey of a new way of life. And again, I have to put the oxygen on me first. There are so many beautiful moments in caregiving that we need to share. The joy when a person can be vulnerable and respected at the same time, to smile when you're assisting them, and the peace they receive when you say, you're in Queen-mode. And my, my did she enjoy it.
Caregivers are Silent Heroes and I am honored to be and bring more awareness to our struggles. If you know someone who's a caregiver, support them as often as you can. Every kind act matters. There's one more thing you can do...GIVE!
Did you know that it is very rare that a primary caregiver received funds? That most use their money to care for loved one. Did you most caregivers have to home because there is no one to relieve them when they need a break? Did you most caregivers loses their jobs because they can't afford to pay someone to come and care for their loved ones appropriately? We try to offset that as much as possible. Thank you for your gift! It matters more than you know.