10/25/2024
Friendship in Heaven! Yes!
Friendship in this life can be disappointing at times. I believer true friendship was part of what God made us to have, and is also part of His heart to us, He is our Lord yes, but also a friend that will never “unfriend” us, will be loyal forever.
Pr 18:24 NLT “There are “friends” who destroy each other, but a real friend sticks closer than a brother.”
When we make mistakes, go astray he corrects, does not hold back and sometimes “wounds” our pride and our ways to set us on the right track again, instead of abandoning us. (Pr 27:6)
In the USA a survey says a person has 1 to 4 friends. Some have only acquaintances. But I believe we were made for friendships, united in heart and committed to each other’s welfare, no matter what comes.
What about friendship in heaven? I believe it’s clear that we’ll know and recognize our loved ones and friends in Heaven.
But how many people have we met in our lives that somehow impacted us but never we were never able to build a friendship with, maybe because we lost track of them or distance. But how many people—including people whose names we never knew—said or did something that impacted us profoundly?
I believe when we get to heaven, we will discover friendship in ways we always longed for. There will be no judgmental attitudes, cliques, exclusiveness, posturing, belittling, or jealousy. But there will be a many that we will discover a deeper bond with and have all eternity to make deeper relationships.
St. Augustine said: “All of us who enjoy God are also enjoying each other in Him.”
Randy Alcorn wrote, commenting on the word of that “Prince of Preachers” C.S. Spurgeon talking about friendships in heaven:
“Perhaps you’re disappointed that you’ve never had the friendships you long for. In Heaven you’ll have much closer relationships with some people you now know, but it’s also true that you may never have met the closest friends you’ll ever have. Just as someone may be fifty years old before meeting her best friend, you may live on the New Earth enjoying many friendships before meeting someone who will become your dearest friend. Maybe your best friend will be someone sitting next to you at the first great feast. After all, the sovereign God who orchestrates friendships will be in charge of the seating arrangements.
On the New Earth we’ll experience the joy of familiarity in old relationships and the joy of discovery in new ones. As we get to know each other better, we’ll get to know God better. As we find joy in each other, we’ll find joy in Him. No human relationships will overshadow our relationship with God. All will serve to enhance it.” (from We Shall See God)