06/21/2023
Things as they are
I was reading something about Zen and there was a mention of nonconceptual understanding, or “Things as they are.” I think I kind of get things as they are, but I am not sure I can explain it. Maybe it is better to give an example than try to explain it. My dog Louie is a small poodle mix. He is cute and obnoxiously friendly, and everyone in the neighborhood likes him. Most of the neighborhood dogs like him too. Louie is popular.
At home, Louie often barks at nothing. I take him out and show him that there is nothing there, but he still wants to bark. Sometimes I wonder if he knows more than I do, or can sense things I can’t, but his barking is very annoying, especially when it starts suddenly. I know Louie’s barking shouldn’t get to me (and my wife), but it is hard to relax during his outbursts. Sometimes, however, I think or even feel more than think, that this is Louie. Louie as he is. I can try to change him, but nothing seems to help. Is letting Louie be Louie nonconceptual understanding?
Like lots of people, we got our dog during Covid. He was in a shelter less than 24 hours when I picked him up, but we wonder if the 10 months he spent with his previous owners led to some of his behaviors, like never jumping up on furniture (we have to pick him up), and preferring my wife despite the fact that I feed him, walk him, and take him to the park, etc. Maybe Louie came with some baggage. Maybe not. Maybe this is not about Louie, but is about me. Maybe I need to relax and just see Louie as he is, a cute, friendly dog who likes to bark. Lots of dogs in my neighborhood bark. Do their owners fret about their barking? Or do they say like Osgood in Some Like It Hot, “Well, nobody’s perfect!” Enough about Louie.
By Zach Berkowitz, Senior Student