11/08/2020
In the Message Bible, Proverbs 29:25, says " The fear of human opinion disables; trusting in God protects you from that. You can be addicted to a lot of different things like alcohol, drugs, s*x, gambling, and even food. But, you can also be addicted to APPROVAL.
When your identity is wrapped up in other people's acceptance, you set yourself up for an APPROVAL addiction, because your sense of self-worth is always on the line.
We are so accustomed to wearing a disguise before everyone, that eventually we are unable to recognize ourselves.
That's not how God wants you to live! No one's approval or disapproval can affect you- UNLESS YOU GIVE IT CREDIBILITY.
Someone wisely pointed out, that when we are young we worry about what people think and we try to please them.
When we are middle-aged, we get tired of trying to please everybody.
And as we get older and wiser, we realize, most of the time,they weren't even thinking about us at all!
Guess what? There are times when pleasing God means you won't be able to please people- and we must accept that!
As long as we can give excuses, and as long as we can blame it on something or someone else and don't deal with truth, we killing ourselves.
Some of us will never get any better, until somebody gets the guts to tell us the TRUTH.
Whether it's drugs, s*x, po*******hy, alcohol, codependency, gambling, food or attention we will always feel trapped, and there seems to be no way out.
Know your worth, God made you who He wanted you to be, but when you are always going to others for them to tell you who are, and for their applause, you will ultimately loose yourself.
Stand up, you are somebody no matter what they say or know about you, God already knows the story.