10/02/2026
What Loyalty?
Always looking for something better.
Dear Church Family, Friends, and Neighbors,
Rick Devens won the recent season of Big Brother.
Reality TV is not everyone’s cup of tea. But this season held an interesting plotline. A former Survivor contestant meets a young surgical dental assistant. Over the season, these two strangers formed a friendship in which Rick Devens was “Dad,” and Drew Campbell was “Son.” Both players used this arrangement to their advantage.
By the final episode, three players were left. Two of them were “Dad” and “Son.” Both told the other they would take them to the final two. For those unfamiliar, and those who think Reality TV is a joke, the promise to take a player to the end is common but rarely kept. The rule applied here. In video clips, both Devens and Drew, as most referred to them, wondered whether it was wise to compete for votes if it was just the two of them.
In the end, the very public proclamation that Devens would take Drew to the final two did not pan out. Claims of betrayal and broken promises are standard fare in a show where all bets are off in pursuit of $750,000. Spoiler Alert! Rick Devens evicted Drew, took Taylor to the end, and the vote wasn’t close: 6-1.
What does this have to do with anything?
Loyalty is an odd experience. Maybe even a rare commodity in human relationships these days.
This is likely because most human relationships are grounded in the unseen and unspoken transaction that is part of what we call friendship. Friends are friends right up to the point where one of the two violates the unseen and unspoken expectations to take the other to the end. That means we place a burden on the other, unwritten rules, as if both parties know the future perfectly. What could ever happen that would make someone disloyal? And is that ever an unrealistic expectation?
Sunday, we conclude what we know as John 16. Last Sunday we heard Jesus tell the disciples their sorrow would be turned to joy. And, as a case in point, this week Jesus tells the disciples they will choose a path that brings Jesus sorrow and added suffering, but their failure will actually be overtaken by peace- Jesus’s peace.
Talk about a made-for-reality-TV scenario.
And that may be a point.
Jesus overcomes the world where the success or failure of our relationships is embedded in you scratch my back, and I will scratch your back; you do for me, and I will do for you; I will take you to the end, right up until the point where I realize what I did not know.
Where the disciples abandon Jesus, Jesus refuses, having fulfilled both sides of our commitment to the relationship with his faithfulness. This calls us back to God’s covenant with Abraham. There, under the starlit sky, while Abraham sleeps, God makes a covenant with Abraham and keeps both sides, for he loves Abraham.
That is the Good News of God’s love for us in Jesus.
Take time to read John 16:33. You may find the Big Brother illustration odd, even nonsense. But that is also what most think of the Good News: that God loves us, odd creatures, failures, and all. After all, Jesus has conquered the world of all failures, creating in us something new.
Looking forward to gathering with you for Bible Study and Worship, including celebrating the Lord’s Supper on Sunday!
Glad I’m Your Pastor,
Todd