10/20/2025
Counseling Identity - 7 Day Mind Renewing Plan For The Christ Follower:
Adopted By The King:
(Ephesians 1:4-5 &18)- God loved us and chose us in Christ to be holy and without fault in his eyes. God decided in advance to adopt us into his own family by bringing us to himself through Jesus Christ. This is what he wanted to do, and it gave him great pleasure. 18- I pray that your hearts will be flooded with light so that you can understand the confident hope he has given to those he called—his holy people who are his rich and glorious inheritance.
How's That For Your Worth?
Here Is A Seven Day Formula for Claiming Your Identity in Christ
In order for Christians to walk in victory, we need to identify the lies we believe about ourselves and exchange them for the truth about who we really are in Christ. Consider the following seven lies we tell ourselves followed by seven truths from God’s Word. For lasting change to occur, we must cast aside the lies and constantly rely on the truth of Scripture.
Day One … My New Established Family
Lie: “I can’t feel valuable unless I’m loved and accepted by my family and the significant people in my life.”
Truth: I have God-given value because I have been placed into a new family where I am unconditionally loved and accepted by God.
• I am chosen by God.
“He chose us in him before the creation of the world to be holy and blameless in his sight.” (Ephesians 1:4)
• I am adopted by God.
“In love he predestined us to be adopted as his sons through Jesus Christ, in accordance with his pleasure and will.” (Ephesians 1:4–5)
• I am a child of God.
“To all who received him, to those who believed in his name, he gave the right to become children of God.” (John 1:12)
• I am born again.
“You have been born again, not of perishable seed, but of imperishable, through the living and enduring word of God.” (1 Peter 1:23)
• I’ve been adopted into the family of God.
“You did not receive a spirit that makes you a slave again to fear, but you received the Spirit of sonship. And by him we cry, ‘Abba, Father.’ The Spirit himself testifies with our spirit that we are God’s children.” (Romans 8:15–16)
Day Two … My New Characteristics
Lie: “I’ll never feel valuable because this is just the way I am. I cannot change.”
Truth: I have God-given value because God has changed me on the inside and has given me new characteristics.
• I am a new creation.
“If anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation; the old has gone, the new has come!” (2 Corinthians 5:17)
• I have a new nature.
“In him you were also circumcised, in the putting off of the sinful nature, not with a circumcision done by the hands of men but with the circumcision done by Christ.” (Colossians 2:11)
• I have a new heart.
“I will give you a new heart and put a new spirit in you; I will remove from you your heart of stone and give you a heart of flesh.” (Ezekiel 36:26)
• I have a new spirit.
“I will put my Spirit in you and move you to follow my decrees and be careful to keep my laws.” (Ezekiel 36:27)
• I have a new mind.
“ ‘Who has known the mind of the Lord that he may instruct him?’ But we have the mind of Christ.” (1 Corinthians 2:16)
Day Three … My New Clothing
Lie: “I can’t feel I have value unless I live in the right neighborhood, drive the right car and wear the right clothes.”
Truth:
I have God-given value because I have a new residence in God’s kingdom and the new clothing of Christ.
• I am clothed with Christ.
“All of you who were baptized into Christ have clothed yourselves with Christ.” (Galatians 3:27)
• I am baptized into Christ.
“We were therefore buried with him through baptism into death in order that, just as Christ was raised from the dead through the glory of the Father, we too may live a new life.” (Romans 6:4)
• I am hidden in Christ.
“For you died, and your life is now hidden with Christ in God.” (Colossians 3:3)
• I am sealed with the Spirit of Christ.
“You also were included in Christ when you heard the word of truth, the gospel of your salvation. Having believed, you were marked in him with a seal, the promised Holy Spirit, who is a deposit guaranteeing our inheritance until the redemption of those who are God’s possession—to the praise of his glory.” (Ephesians 1:13–14)
• I am given the full armor of God.
“Therefore put on the full armor of God, so that when the day of evil comes, you may be able to stand your ground, and after you have done everything, to stand. Stand firm then, with the belt of truth buckled around your waist, with the breastplate of righteousness in place, and with your feet fitted with the readiness that comes from the gospel of peace. In addition to all this, take up the shield of faith, with which you can extinguish all the flaming arrows of the evil one. Take the helmet of salvation and the sword of the Spirit, which is the word of God.” (Ephesians 6:13–17)
Day Four … My New Life
Lie: “My life has no value since I’ve done so many things wrong—my life is ruined.”
Truth: I have God-given value, for I’ve been given a new clothing in Jesus Christ.
• I am redeemed.
“In him we have redemption through his blood, the forgiveness of sins, in accordance with the riches of God’s grace.” (Ephesians 1:7)
• I am washed.
“That is what some of you were [wicked]. But you were washed, you were sanctified, you were justified in the name of the Lord Jesus Christ and by the Spirit of our God.” (1 Corinthians 6:11)
• I am purified.
“If we walk in the light, as he is in the light, we have fellowship with one another, and the blood of Jesus, his Son, purifies us from all sin.” (1 John 1:7)
• I am justified.
“Since we have been justified through faith, we have peace with God through our Lord Jesus Christ.” (Romans 5:1)
• I am sanctified.
“You were washed, you were sanctified, you were justified in the name of the Lord Jesus Christ and by the Spirit of our God.” (1 Corinthians 6:11)
Day Five … My New Image
Lie:“My life has value as long as I can look good to others.”
Truth: I have God-given value even though I have fallen in the past and may stumble in the future. He has given me a new clothing.
• I am totally accepted by Christ.
“Accept one another, then, just as Christ accepted you, in order to bring praise to God.” (Romans 15:7)
• I am totally blameless before Christ.
“He has reconciled you by Christ’s physical body through death to present you holy in his sight, without blemish and free from accusation.” (Colossians 1:22)
• I am totally righteous in Christ.
“God made him who had no sin to be sin for us, so that in him we might become the righteousness of God.” (2 Corinthians 5:21)
• I am totally complete in Christ.
“In Christ all the fullness of the Deity lives in bodily form, and you have been given fullness [made complete] in Christ, who is the head over every power and authority.” (Colossians 2:9–10)
• I am totally perfect because of Christ.
“By one sacrifice he has made perfect forever those who are being made holy.” (Hebrews 10:14)
Day Six … My New Freedom
Lie: “My life has no value because I have failed and deserve to be punished.”
Truth: I have God-given value based not on my past performance but on Christ, who lives in me and who gives me freedom from condemnation.
• I am free from accusation.
“He has reconciled you by Christ’s physical body through death to present you holy in his sight, without blemish and free from accusation.” (Colossians 1:22)
• I am free from condemnation.
“Therefore, there is now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus.” (Romans 8:1)
• I am free from the law.
“So, my brothers, you also died to the law through the body of Christ, that you might belong to another, to him who was raised from the dead, in order that we might bear fruit to God.” (Romans 7:4)
• I am free from sin.
“In the same way, count yourselves dead to sin but alive to God in Christ Jesus.” (Romans 6:11)
• I am free from God’s wrath.
“Since we have now been justified by his blood, how much more shall we be saved from God’s wrath through him!” (Romans 5:9)
Day Seven … My New Inheritance
Lie: “My life has no value if I do not succeed financially and leave a comfortable inheritance.”
Truth: I have God-given value because I’ve been given a new inheritance that provides the only true and lasting significance and security possible.
• I have been made an heir of God.
“So you are no longer a slave, but a son; and since you are a son, God has made you also an heir.” (Galatians 4:7)
• I have inherited everything needed to be godly.
“His divine power has given us everything we need for life and godliness through our knowledge of him who called us by his own glory and goodness.” (2 Peter 1:3)
• I have inherited a divine nature.
“Through these he has given us his very great and precious promises, so that through them you may participate in the divine nature and escape the corruption in the world caused by evil desires.” (2 Peter 1:4)
• I have inherited every spiritual blessing.
“Praise be to the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, who has blessed us in the heavenly realms with every spiritual blessing in Christ.” (Ephesians 1:3)
• I have inherited eternal life.
“For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life.” (John 3:16)
E. In the Image of God
If the real you has “Christ in you,” then the visible you will reflect the character of Christ through you.
“And we pray this … that you may live a life worthy of the Lord and may please him in every way: bearing fruit in every good work, growing in the knowledge of God, being strengthened with all power according to his glorious might so that you may have great endurance and patience, and joyfully giving thanks to the Father, who has qualified you to share in the inheritance of the saints in the kingdom of light.… In whom [Christ] we have redemption, the forgiveness of sins. He is the image of the invisible God, the firstborn over all creation. For by him all things were created: things in heaven and on earth, visible and invisible, whether thrones or powers or rulers or authorities; all things were created by him and for him.” (Colossians 1:10–16)
The Bible says,“He [Jesus] is the image of the invisible God.” (Colossians 1:15)
Therefore, with Jesus living in you, He will enable you to reflect the image of God. This is your true identity!